i also am overweight and agree with you on that i also love the way i am. i was discussing going to curves to my husband and my 6 year old daughter said, "why mommy?", i replied, "to lose weight". she was upset and started crying, i asked her why she was upset and she said, "i don't want you to change i love you just like that mommy". what could put things in perspective more than that. if we could all have the bliss of being young again without sterotypes and discrimination. i may be overweight, but i climb those stairs everyday and when i get to the top i am not the one out of breath. the quality of patient care i provide is determined by the feedback of my patients, not my weight. i have been a nurse for 5 years and still yet to have negative rapport with patients, colleagues, or physicians. it is all about personality, compassion for caring for others, and good ole morals and values. [color=#226699]'she's very pretty.' 'yes, but pretty is as pretty does. i haven't been terribly impressed by her manners. actually, i have had people say that it is intimidating for them to have an extremely healthy individual take care of them, they feel like they are judging them. i work on ccu and most patients are themselves somewhat weight challenged.:roll :roll :roll :roll :roll :roll