Weebnurse

I’ve been an ICU and ER nurse for well over a decade. Needless to say when I get home, I just want to relax and leave work at work. My husband in the last year or so has been increasingly been becoming a hypochondriac to the point almost every single action has to do with himself and his health issues. He spends hours googling what’s wrong with him. He makes me check the same thing on him multiple times a day. And when I tell him medical advice, he checks with his mom who’s a nature path and does what she thinks and ignores me. He’s had tests and seen Drs. I got to the point tonight where I was telling him about my brothers health scare and he interrupted me just to say he has the same sx and went on and on about himself and his problems again. I finally told him that I was tired of every interaction being about him and what’s wrong with him. He got so mad at me and made me feel like I was an uncaring heartless person. I’m utterly exhausted. I have tried to care and did care in the beginning but it never ends. Am I an *** for telling him to stop obsessing about it and I don’t want to hear about it anymore? I don’t know what else to do. I have NOTHING left to give anymore. What can I do?