I have no idea what is available to you locally, but I know in Ohio you can easily transfer into a nursing program from a general studies curriculum. It is difficult to jump from one nursing program to another but it sounds like that’s not where you are at? And I don’t know if it’s on your radar, but I just saw that WGU has a FNP program available in New Jersey.
A word of caution if you are receiving financial aid, or expect to for your ADN: there is a limit on the number of credits you can pursue at the associates level before you are cut off from grants and loans. It doesn’t matter how they were paid for - you will be deemed ineligible after 90 credits for federal aid. Be careful taking classes to stay enrolled as you wait for an opening in a program.
Best of luck to you!