joeyrush

I'm just saying that if a physician did that to a women in front of a male student especially against her will there would be hell to pay don't you think? The way he put it to me was, what part of my genitals were not exposed? In order to expose a woman's genitals completely she would have to be in a very embarrassing position.

Oh boulergirl he's only 48! :-) he'll get it together I know it. It's so difficult for men, if this was a woman there would be no question what so ever so I guess it's up to us to keep track of these men doctors! One thing that's pretty nifty, this guy owns and manages three web sites and he said he's going to feature this doctor no matter how embarrassing it is to him, to warn others. He said his children know of the sites, his children's friends and their parents so it's going to be quite embarrassing but he says he's going to tell his story online!

Sorry Jess I didn't see your reply before I posted my previous reply. it just sounded like you were about to say "he went there for treatment what did he expect to happen?(Which is exactly what the doctor told him) I don't want to come here and make trouble on the first day. The last time I spoke to him he was in search of another doctor of course and get this, a female doctor!He said it wasn't a matter of vanity, it was a matter of consent. And as he put it, the difference between making love and rape. The difference between being robbed and making a donation. When he told me he was going to see a female doctor I just said " good for you!" And like I said, I am going to stick my neck out and contact him and I'm going to tell him about you guys and you are really going to make his day! Thank you so much!

Thank you guys you're great! I only wish I could direct him to this site so he can see all your wonderful replies! I can understand that being a man he feels quite self-conscious now which he expressed to me in tears. Poor men , big boys don't cry. Sad thing that he spoke to my boss at first, she told him that it was his responsibility to say that he didn't want her there. She's a real brown nose b*tch and has zero bedside manner. As a matter of fact I have his phone number and he would love to hear from me he says so I am going to direct him to this site! He'll be very happy... tears... maybe Jess is right...nah, I'll never distance myself, that's why I entered this profession.

I forgot the "N" sorry!

Who said I was "very attached" to the patient jess? I've known him and his wife for eight years that's all. He confides in us he trusts us, we assure him that we are trustworthy, is that being" very" attached? In that case I guess I'm" very" attached to him and all of our patients. Hope you are too someday because I'm very proud of my relationship with our patients, they come to me for help. Thank you so much cyber kat! The doctor blamed us! This is not the teaching school by the way. The patient called for six weeks and the doctor blamed us again, I think that's a very big issue. The doctor also said he removes the clothing of" hesitant" patients be they male or female and I assume self-conscious teenage girls and women who've undergone a mastectomy also... then blames the staff.... I wonder what that young pretty future doctor learned that day?

The physician not the nurse.But what's with the removal of clothing without consent?More than without consent,refusal.And what with the embarrassmet is yet to come!

if they would object to an observer or student present in the room during a physical? A doctor dropped the drawers(and underwear) of an UNWILLING man when he didn't comply to the Dr.'s "request" in front of a female student.The guy who was being treated for impotence and cronic pain for years by this doctor was very embarrassed and said he would never have permitted an observer in the room if asked.He told me with tears in his eyes about being unable to make love to his wife and the trouble it was bringing, that he hides in the garage in the cold to cry.A terrible story, creating fights when his wife suggested they get intimate etc. I care for this man,I've known him for years. He's funny and sweet and has even sent us flowers!I agree with everything he say's about exposing his "worthless member" against his will.He said (and the doctor admits this) that the doctor said "oh no,the embarrassment is yet to come" as he yanked his pants and underwear down...If front of his wife too! he and his wife are inseparable and she says ( I spoke to her about this ) he wants to be her hero and be everything to her but the impotence is destroying him,he crys in the bathroom, in the garage and she's powerless( I'm crying now). They called me and asked if the doctor could call them but the doctor refused.Finally after six week and many more calls he had to make an appointment to talk to this doctor about this! He showed up with his wife again (another sweetheart) and the silly doctor blamed it on the staff! he lied and said he just found out and also that it's the staff's responsibility to inform him that the extra person in the room is there to stay for the whole procedure and if they don't want observers a staff member is responsible for putting a note on the door.He also said the the unwilling removal of clothing in front of student (and observers? Hmmm) is common and in twenty years no one has complained.He said quote "how else are they going to learn? LEARN WHAT? how to humiliate your patients? The patient,his wife and two children will never come here again and that makes me sad.A wonderful couple with wonderful kids. Has anyone ever been told it's their resposibilty? no one here has ever been told that and I can't imagine what this doctor is thinking blaming us. What should I do? Thank you so much! Joey