I want to thank all who have given me advise. I will explain further. First to who asked question about whether clippers were used, in this instance no. The shaving would have involved me handling his penis and moving it, handling his scrotum and moving it. That being said, I think my trouble was that I have shaved males before but no one was there. Two times the males got erections when I touched them. I thought I was very professional and telling them to not be embarrassed its a natural thing. I did not feel comfortable that this patient might get an erection from my touch in front of his wife. I am now re thinking nursing alll together as this case has really affected me.