Unfortunately, this was my experience as well in LTC/SNF. Since leaving LTC, and having time to process, I believe that this work environment destroyed my confidence and passion to try other aspects of nursing. I'm terrified of bedside nursing as a result- I've seen unimaginable neglect and staff fighting.
If you may humor me for a moment, these environments are toxic from the top to the bottom and therefore toxicity festers on the floors. Many of my coworkers, CNAs, LPNs, RNs, were dedicated, humorous and hard working. I was one of them. They would take me under their wing and teach me everything I needed. Please don't degrade our fellow nurses or women just because of a harsh and toxic environment.