Thanks for all the input from all you hardworking moms but i really dont agree with the last reply. And no life is not about material things but my kids have a dad and grandparents and aunts and uncles to spend time with and to do things with. I'm really not looking out for me i'm looking out for them wether i do nursing school or get a full-time job i'm still stuck so why not sacrifice some time away from the kids and the husband to make a better life for all of us and to do what i wanna do and thats to help people and eventually i wanna go on to be an ob nurse. I feel like this is the best time. I think it would be harder when their older like when their in sports and things. But thanks