Moving isn't an option, since I have a child my support system here is vital for my ability to go to school at all. Living with family is also not even remotely an option. My parents, although I love them, have a toxic/abusive relationship that caused me all sorts of issues as a child and adult and it's not something I'm willing to subject my child to. I do have court ordered child support. He just does everything he can to not pay. Owes me like 15 grand already . Thanks for your response though! I'm kind of wondering how other single parents are making it happen for them?