lena11

Dear Friends I am not a nurse, but I worked in a Nursing Home as a therapist, where I met my boyfriend. At that point he worked as PT assistant for 8 years, in Union, 2. He got transwered twice in last 5 months, without his consent, and without any transitional paperwork. The last possition he accepted out of fear for being jobless is a position of male CNA. I do not want to offend any of the present CNA's over here, but that transition is really getting me now, and interfering our relationship. His job is mostly personal care of the patients, as well as feeding. I still feel ofended that he is seeing all days long naked human bodies, touching them, and as I said It influence our intimate relationship. I feel as being cheated on in some way. How do you menage your relationships, does your friends bring that issue ever as obstacle? Maybe I am a bit traditional, but It is very hard to adjust to his new position in relation with human bodies. Please, help...I feel it is deeply affecting our relationship. Thank You