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First of I want to say this post is wonderful and I want to thank everyone for being a counselor, a shoulder to lean on, and a therapist. I have sort of a dilemma myself and I'm trying not to let it bother me. I'll give a little background about myself; school was never my strong point, when I was in high school I took all the easy classes to graduate, back in 1986. Forward to 1994 I wanted to go to college, so I applied but because I didn't take the SAT Test, I had to learn and practice everything all on my own. I pass but barley, the school accepted me but I had to take remedial classes. I eventually dropped out because I had no idea about how to study or take notes, plus I was married and going through some emotional problems. Forward again to 2002 I went to a vocational school in Georgia; it was pretty easy I got a diploma in Medical Billing. Please stay with me I'm getting to the point. Now jump ahead to 2009 where I'm currently in school for Information technology. Online school is a lot of work but not a lot of studying or note taking that's pretty much up to you if you want to retain the information, plus the tests are open book. But don't get me wrong it's still a lot of work I have to write 4 essays a week with some research. As of now all I need is AP and Microbiology for the ASD nursing program. I have already been accepted to the University but now I have to take the TEAS test.

My dilemma is I'm not scared anymore about test or school like I use to be, I know my weakness, one being math. But when I read the last post of the girl that said he failed nursing school and for the first time in a long time I got scared. See I work at night and I will have to continue to work because its just me and my Son. My fear is that if I get accepted to nursing school, how will I find the time to read all the assignments plus take good notes and study. I will admit I'm not that great at studying although I've done it before and passed also I get great tips from my son and friends. I don't want to get into nursing school then get kicked out so I was thinking that maybe I should just take the TEAS test and once I pass just wait until 2012 since I have at least two year before the test has to be taken again, and just concentrate on my online degree then go to nursing school in 2012 instead of 2011.

I don't know what to do I try to leave it in the lord's hand but I take it back by trying to figure it out for myself. I want to be a nurse that's where my passion is but I don't want to fail either. I know this is a long story and I sorry but I guess I need a little pep talk or reassurance or just someone who understands. 

Thanks again

Cookie422

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I think if you really want to be a nurse then you should do it. Maybe you can look into a part time nursing program. Yes, a lot of the post you see on this site are scary. I am starting NS on monday and it does make me nervous. However, everyone is different. Your experience may or may not be there experience. I am back in school for the second time too and I am doing what i wanna do. dont let fear get in your way it wont do you any good. if you really want this believe in yourself and just make it happen.

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Thanks dcaradon I will remember that. I wish you all the luck.

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cookie422 said:
My fear is that if I get accepted to nursing school, how will I find the time to read all the assignments plus take good notes and study.

I don't know what to do I try to leave it in the lord's hand but I take it back by trying to figure it out for myself. I want to be a nurse that's where my passion is but I don't want to fail either. I know this is a long story and I sorry but I guess I need a little pep talk or reassurance or just someone who understands. 

Thanks again

Cookie422

First, I wish you all the best. There are other single parents on this site who have worked and attended nursing school at the same time. My only suggestion is to maybe explore the LPN program since some of them may have alternate hours that would work with your schedule.

Whatever your choice or path is, you aren't alone. If you have had the fortitude to get to this point, keep yourself focused on your goal. I know that school, work and kids usually equals exhaustion, but rise to the challenge because it is only for a limited amount of time.

Also, from what I have observed, this is a vent-friendly place.:)

Best, L.

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Nursing school is hard. In your situation, it may be harder. However, the pay-off is worth it!!! A couple years of tough times in trade for a life time of living your passion is not a bad trade-off!!!

Remember, yes you can fail, but.....as I once read...."you miss 100% of the opportunities you don't take." You may fail out. That is life, but if you do not follow your passion, then you are guaranteeing failure. Right? I believe that you should follow your passion. If you fail out of a semester, pick yourself up and try again. Doing that, you will never fail. I know a girl that took several times to get into nursing school and failed the NCLEX 3 times. Today, she is an RN. The past is behind her. I'm sure if you asked her, she would say it was worth it!!!

I wish you all the best, no matter what you choose to do.

Sincerely,

JB

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