How to not be attached to patient

[bbie17]

I've had a couple patients who were really devastated and cried after they learned of their prognosis. I feel so vulnerable everytime this happens because I know I can't do anything to change the outcome. And the worse part is I always get really teary no matter how hard I try not to. I know this could make a patient think that I'm unprofessional and lacking confidence, so I really want to change. What can I do to control my emotions and not become attach to my patient? Thanks for any suggestions.

[Daytonite, BSN, RN]

actually, i don't think there's anything wrong with getting teary eyed along with patients. i was taught not to be afraid to do this by my instructors. what makes a nurse unprofessional is when the nurse makes a mistake or can't get their work done because of getting emotional. getting a bit emotional along with the patient shows the patient that you care, are empathetic and that you are human too. the last thing i want for a nurse, or doctor for that matter, is an unfeeling robot.