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hi all,

i'm a new nurse with a couple months experience. i'm not exactly sure what advice to even ask for at this point but i thought i would post this with the hope that somebody may have some words of wisdom....all i know is that every time i have to go into work i get so extremely anxious and, at times, tearful. i can't quite put my finger on what is making me so anxious. usually when i get to work everything is ok, i stay busy, and before i know it the night is over. i've had a couple of bad nights when i am so extremely overwhelmed i start to cry and feel like the world is caving in. i feel alone, inadequate, and like i don't know what the heck i'm doing. i'm trying my best to get through, but it is difficult. i don't think night shift is exactly helping the whole situation because i have to think about it all day before going in. at this point there are no day shift spots available. i couldn't wait to become a nurse so i could help people, but now i'm so self-absorbed with my own circumstance that i have kind of lost my motivation in a way. i've been trying to give it up to god, trying to draw strength in that respect, however, i'm still having so much trouble getting adjusted. change has always been hard for me, and entering into this world of nursing is a big change.

thanks for any advice in advance. it's so thoughtful that you all take time to help counsel us newbies!

blessings!

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Specializes in school RN, CNA Instructor, M/S.

This happens to me even now every once in a while.It is a serious resposibility and sometimes it can seem overwhelming! I sometimes have to remind myself that I am a well educated nurse and I do know what I'm doing! I'm sure as a new nurse that doesn't have the 16 years of experiences that I have had it's hard.You have finished Formal schooling, Graduated and passed a licensing exam. Now the state says "YOU ARE AN RN."

I am serious when I tell you YOU ARE AN RN!!!!! Believe in yourself and trust in your skills. Continue to learn and share experiences. Listen and watch the nurses around you. Keep your eyes and heart open. YOU ARE AN RN!" Relax (but not too much!!) Give yourself a break and enjoy your new life!!

Some nurses find it hard to adjust when they have had tests, classes stress and clinicals and instructors all over you>>> now you are on your own so to speak and it can scare the hell out of you. we aree here for you!!

YOU ARE AN RN!!!!

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Specializes in Hospital Education Coordinator.

you now have a huge responsibility and may be doubting your ability to perform or just plain scared to death. I was, the first year or so. Find a mentor. See if your facility has an employee assistance program so you can talk to someone about how to manage stress and anxiety. It does get better with time.

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Thanks very much! Just a lack of confidence still I guess but I feel that it is getting a little better!

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