I was asked to be a preceptor by my manager and at first I was unsure of whether to take on such a responsibility. Did I have the skill? Was I proficient enough? Did I have the patience to do this job? Could I be successful in this new task? Preceptor Qualities A preceptor is an exemplary person who can teach but also sit back and review new grads as they progress through training. A preceptor will always be available whenever needed. Preceptors should follow and adhere to a learning contract to insure that the preceptee has successfully learned all of the tasks. Preceptors also must meet a certain criteria to be allowed to precept other nurses. They should attend inservices and be knowledgeable about personality types and the different phases of reality shock for the new nurse. The preceptor should feel a strong sense of accomplishment and pride whenever the preceptee graduates. I did a lot of soul searching and decided that I would accept the challenge. I became a preceptor and jumped in with both feet because I wanted to be the best preceptor possible. I wanted to be a preceptor that any new grad would want to have and to be very different from what I received as a preceptee. I knew that to be a brand new grad on a med-surg floor could be an extremely scary thing and my first task was to have my preceptee trust me. I knew trust was key in a successful relationship. I began by developing an open and honest communication style with my preceptee. I stressed that she could come to me with anything and that "no question was stupid". I also was not afraid to praise her when she did well and to never criticize her in front of others. I also emphasized that I was always there to help her out if or when she needed it. My preceptee soon blossomed into an eager, caring nurse and she was enjoying her days as a med-surg nurse. She started out with one patient and soon was able to handle two and then three. I could see her growing into the confident nurse that she would be. She began to develop her critical thinking skills and to learn to listen to her intuition and know what " the hair standing up on the back of her neck', was telling her. She soon was drawing blood like a pro and began starting IVs with ease. She was rapidly progressing from novice to beginner. I watched her as her confidence grew in her interactions with doctors and residents. She soon felt confident enough to make suggestions about patient care. She also started to question medications and procedures and if they were appropriate for the patient. She also took on more and more difficult assignments because " she wanted the challenge". The weeks went on and she continued to grow and become more confident everyday. Soon she was handling the entire assignment of six patients on her own. She had also learned to delegate appropriately and to prioritize her care. She also was eager to take a new admission when they came to the floor and to even help if she was caught up. It was soon ten weeks into the program and soon she would be on her own. I wanted to be sure that she was ready. We reviewed all of her documents, we discussed -"what if" scenarios. We had practice codes and practice METS, we had skill tests and talked about medications and interactions. We had covered it all. And now my preceptee was ready to go on her own. I had watched this young nurse as she went through all of the phases of reality shock during her orientation from the honeymoon phase through resolution and she was soon going to experience it all over again as a new nurse. I watched her as she began her first day on her own. She was a bit scared as she started out but soon a resident came to the desk and asked- " who is the nurse for 456 bed a"? She stood and said " that would be me, how can I help you? I knew she was going to be fine, she was spreading her wings and flying solo and I was proud of her and also thankful to have such a noble opportunity.