Published Aug 6, 2008
VANESSA WILLIAMS
138 Posts
Boy O Boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:devil:
The devil:devil: is busy how about I was outside in the garage last night studying minding my own business and my Aunt called my phone asking did I call her house and I told her yes Icalled looking for my Grandmother at the time.
So, my Aunt was like well what are you doing at this time. I was like I'm studying and she was like dang!!!!!! Your still studying your going to be studying for ever.
I was like well I have to do what I have to do and whatever it takes..
I was disturbed for the rest of the night and couldn't even sleep from thinking how she tried to be-little me.
I'm trying to do my best and study now she knows I failed my test in the past.
She was like when is your test date? I'm thinking I wouldn't tell you if it's the last thing I do.
This was messed up it ruined my whole night I swear. I started crying like a big baby. I was hurt truely.
I said when I succeed I'm just going to put on my uniform and go to work and not even tell anyone that I'm a nurse.
3sodapop
89 Posts
I understand your frustration. It's a very stressful time. I couldn't sleep or relax until it was all finally over last week. With that in mind...try to cut your friends some slack; they have no idea what you're going through. After you pass the NCLEX they will be so happy for you.
Good Luck!
leyou
48 Posts
Have a courage to not telling them your business. Don't cry my dear, God will provide. Don't let people talk ruinning your life, and that's what the devil trying to do. May be this is the first time she does that to yo you, My husband says that to me every sigle day that I touch the book, and I can tell you that I have more strengh than before. One day, you will proove your aunt that she is wrong as I will proove my husband that he is. Don't forget to pray to ask God wisdom and every thing that you need, and one day, you will be happy. I didn't even tell my family about my Nclex exam, thank God I finally find this site that I can share my pain about the Nclex. Don't let people talking poison your life, do what you have to do and you will be happy one day.
Don't give up, you're not the only one on the board, and you will pass one day.
Jesus loves you
:redbeatheThanks so much!!!!!!!!! I needed this LUV... and I know you will also pass leyou and thanks for the encouraging words 3sodopop!!! So sweet yall just don't know and I will pray for wisdom and understanding Thanks and GOD Bless!!!!!:redbeathe
Walking N2 MyDestiny
143 Posts
Vanessa,
I haven't passed the NCLEX yet because the devil has been so busy in my life because he knows that once I pass I am going to just take the field of nursing by storm. My best advice is not to tell anyone when you take it because everytime I do I get even more stressed. Sorry to hear about the comment your aunt said. You just have to ignore her and just keep studying hard and it will pay off.
Just last night the devil was busy in my husband. I like to study in the den so I can look outside. I left to take care of my sick mom and I came back he threw all of my books out of the den. He said that he didn't want to see those nursing books.
Man, you are talking about someone that was hot!!!:angryfire
Today is my birthday do you think he is going to take me anywhere? :hhmth:
That is just mean...that is ok because what goes arouund comes around.
I have had no support at all from those that I love but that is ok..To all those haters we will defeat the NCLEX Devil!!
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Walking N2 My Destiny
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Happy Birthday:bdck:!!!!!!!!!!!!Happy birthday 2 u, Happy birthday 2 u , and many moreeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thanks so much!!!!!!!!
missea39, BSN
40 Posts
OK to all my undefeated and enduring sistas. Keep your head up and press deeper into passing this exam. Distractions and frustrations wil come to take you off the road to success (NCLEX) but stay mindful that the more trouble comes, only means the closer you are to conquering what people have thought has conquered you. You conquerred nursing school and you will conquer the NCLEX:bow:
missea39
Are u a nurse? If so what did you study from or what are you studying from now?
I am a lpn today but this coming friday I take my rn boards. I have studied the saunders comp, prioritization/delegation/mosbys nclex cards/ and gave myself over to much prayer and meditation and still praying.:wink2:
Thanks so much Vanessa!!!
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makeeRN
102 Posts
Vanessa just forget about what she said!! Who cares if you study? Well, YOU care about it!!! I'll be praying for you my dear... Goodluck.. Kick those NCLEX a*s
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luv'nlife068
241 Posts
Boy O Boy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:devil:The devil:devil: is busy how about I was outside in the garage last night studying minding my own business and my Aunt called my phone asking did I call her house and I told her yes Icalled looking for my Grandmother at the time.So, my Aunt was like well what are you doing at this time. I was like I'm studying and she was like dang!!!!!! Your still studying your going to be studying for ever.I was like well I have to do what I have to do and whatever it takes..I was disturbed for the rest of the night and couldn't even sleep from thinking how she tried to be-little me.I'm trying to do my best and study now she knows I failed my test in the past.She was like when is your test date? I'm thinking I wouldn't tell you if it's the last thing I do.This was messed up it ruined my whole night I swear. I started crying like a big baby. I was hurt truely. I said when I succeed I'm just going to put on my uniform and go to work and not even tell anyone that I'm a nurse.
You know, until someone has been through what we all have been through, our friends and families have NO IDEA the stress that goes along with all of this. They try to sympathize and be supportive, but don't realize that sometimes what they say doesn't help. I just had it out with my family last week also because I was told that I was making being negative and pretty much making my life sound pathetic. Not realizing I did this and being a big person, I apologized and tried to explain what I am going through after failing twice and tried to explain the level of stress of not being able to move on with life, to get a job. It's almost like we're not aloud to feel what we feel & need to just suck it up. Sometimes that's just not possible. The day I found out I didn't pass for the second time, I told my husband over the phone earlier in the day, but after I got home he didn't say ONE WORD about my test. The worst day of my life and he didn't acknowledge it at all....all I needed was a hug, he didn't have to talk. Instead he went to bed... My family was so great supporting me through school, and now I think they are getting just as frustrated that I haven't passed yet.
Good luck, Vanessa. We will conquer this test from total hell!!! I'll pray that we all are able to stay focused and stay positive...