ktwlpn, LPN, RN Specializes in Med Surg, Homecare, Hospice. Sep 12, 2014 If you are not able to support yourself you have no choice. Many people go through tragedy every day-get up ,go to work, take care of other family members..... You compartmentalize that stuff and go on about the business of your new life, a like you have to learn to live without those people you loved in it. LIFE=LOSS I am very sorry for your loss,you will never get over it but you will get through it. Counseling will help. 0 Likes