HippyHappyRN

I’m looking to get advice from nurses this may have happened to because I’m feeling especially blue at the time being. OK, so little backstory - I graduated in December ‘19 with my ADN and got hired at my areas bigger hospital for a new grad position...

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You got that right! I was in a broken place then and ready to crumble at what anyone said but not anymore. Thanks for being awesome! Happy nursing to all nurses but especially to those of us that fell down, got dragged, and came out better on the oth...

I listened without even seeing your words. I took a much needed break from the keyboard warriors and it made me realize to stick to advice from my mama when I need a reaming rather than the internet ? There were a few comments on here that I will tr...

And yes before anyone says anything, I am doing some introspective reaching on how I’m taking the words of others and that their intent was not malicious.

I never expected to go through more emotional turmoil asking for advice from my more seasoned peers. I apologize for how anyone took anything I said. I really just want to put this behind me now.

I wish you could’ve been a fly on the all for me then. I don’t know what else to say but that I wasn’t unprofessional with my attitude ?

My family gave me the advice to do so, I come from a long line of medical professionals. They felt it was in my best interest considering the circumstances I was being terminated instead of reprimanded or placed in another unit.

It’s the same people over and over. I did not create a negative rapport with anyone. I did not speak to a professional co-worker/higher-up in a negative, condescending, or obnoxious manner. I was professional and polite in all aspects with the except...

I hate that it’s perceived that way but that wasn’t the intention. I can say most certainly that I only had initial interactions with this manager so I don’t know that it’s fair for anyone to ascertain that it was based off the way I have responded t...

I’ve become far less naive than I was before thanks to a lot of opinions, facts, advice, and common sense that everyone has shared with me. While I appreciate everyone taking their time to let me know what they think, I stand firm in the fact that on...

That’s your presumptive opinion, only time will tell though ?

Screenshot what? You liked TriciaJ comment right above mine where she says the sentence that I quipped. I’m not sure what the focus is here.

I honestly am not sure why it says from me but that was a sentence that I got from TriciaJ post above mine, I only took a quip of it and responded to it. If you read her entire response, she says that sentence in her remarks.

I don’t know what you’re referring to, I’ve haven’t responded to or quoted myself, only others.

I agree, I do not believe there is anything more to learn from this topic.

I was looking for advice. Yes, I received some sympathy but I received some judgement as well as criticism. I tried to counteract some of the criticism with humor and it backfired. Thank you all! Wish you the best.

Well aren’t you just a peach ?

Everyone. I appreciate all of your words. I am overwhelmed with how many people are willing to give me help and their advice and I can’t be more grateful during this time for that. That being said - I AM new. I do not believe my “termination” refle...

We’re buying our house from my father in law and I have children in the school system.

OK...well. My comment was meant in good humor considering how many comments I’ve had pertaining to the same nature.

I can’t tell if you’re messing with me or not LOL as I literally just stated in the comment after how much I appreciated everyone

I do appreciate everyone that put their time into giving me their thoughts! I have enough feedback to last me for quite awhile. Thanks guys

I think you may have missed the previous 20+ comments ?

Interesting info you’ve given me. 7 years!? That’s tough.. is that normal? I can’t iterate enough how many people have reached out to me and told me what a bullet I dodged working on this unit with this particular manager. Could they have been just b...