Reporting for racial slurs/substance abuse

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I have an acquaintance who is also a nurse. We don't work at the same facility. Recently she sent me some nasty texts about a friend of mine who is African American, and she used some really nasty racial slurs. I politely corrected her terminology. She assured me that yes, she did mean to use that word. This was pretty upsetting to me. I don't believe that there's any place for racism in nursing. Especially for someone who is so blatant about it. I thought about reporting her comments to her employer. In the meantime, a friend sent me screenshots of texts that the same woman had sent her detailing her illegal drug use. She talked about smoking pot, snorting lines, drinking, and driving home after.

Y'all. I don't even know how to feel about this. I'm disgusted and disturbed. She works in pediatrics. I feel very strongly that I should make her employer aware. I've never done anything like that before though.

I guess my question here is...should I? I wanted the opinions from peers who aren't directly involved. Am I just being a busybody? My concern is for her patients, for obvious reasons. If I do report, will it even be taken seriously? I do have proof (my screenshots and the other girl's). I've never been involved in a situation like this and it's just making me sick. Thanks in advance for any advice and/or opinions.

This is an acquaintance yet shares stores of snorting lines? I find that odd.

Odd choice of friends you have. I don't like racial slurs thus do not associate with those who use them (same with those who smoke, snort and drink whatever...)

Sounds like a plan!

I don't call this nurse my friend. And I "pretend" to care about my patients? That's a big assumption from someone who doesn't know me.

I do appreciate everyone's input. As I stated before, I'm going to continue to stay out of it, continue to block her when she finds ways to contact me, and hope that if her drug abuse/racism affects her work, it will be recognized and handled by the appropriate person.

SgtSkeletonRN said:
Golden Rule:

do not f--- with another persons livelihood.

I strongly disagree. When drug use is the issue, she needs to be reported to the state BON. Just ask yourself: would you feel comfortable having that nurse take care of you, or a member of your family ? The answer I'm sure is NO.

SobreRN said:
Odd choice of friends you have. I don't like racial slurs thus do not associate with those who use them (same with those who smoke, snort and drink whatever...)

The OP stated that this woman is not a friend. If she's using street drugs, then nurses with knowledge of that fact have a duty to report it to the state BON. Morality is not relativistic.

Am I missing something or is the only proof we have of this person's supposed drug use third hand snapsnots of text messages sent? What exactly does anybody have any firsthand knowledge of here? What are you going to report that some third party reported that a nurse admitted to drug use via unconfirmable text messages?

jeroboam said:
The OP stated that this woman is not a friend. If she's using street drugs, then nurses with knowledge of that fact have a duty to report it to the state BON. Morality is not relativistic.

Yes, I believe you state it correctly yourself. The OP is not in the postion you mention, though.

Specializes in UR/PA, Hematology/Oncology, Med Surg, Psych.
debirn918 said:
My concern is this seems to be a texting issue. Dare I think someone else might be signing this nurse's name to texs and the additional 'proof'. Smear campaign could be occurring. If you have other, meaning objective proof, then yes you need to report to appropriate persons. The Nuse Practice Act in my state requires this. To me, it seems kind of strange that the info is supposedly coming from this nurse, but it is from different phones. Think hard and maybe speak to her in person. Be safe and let us know the result.

Heck no! Do not meet up with this person to speak with her. Sounds like they may be stalking you. I'd stay as far away as possible and tell those I know that I do not want to discuss her in any way, shape, or form.

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