It took 6 tries and 12 years to pass NCLEX but I can't find a good job for me

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It took me about 6 tries to pass my NCLEX exam in a 12 year span. I was lucky to land a job even having graduated so long ago on a telemtry unit. I was transparent about the huge gap after graduation and after having extended my 8 week preceptorship to 9 1/2 weeks I was told I would need to be ready after next week. After 9 dufferent preceptors I did not feel confident or ready to be alone and did not want hurt anyone or lose my liscence. I asked to be put on a less acute unit but none were available so I voluntarily quit. I then got a nx corrections job that was not difficult and slower paced but full of medical staff that were toxic, unprofessional , unorganized mean and were not willing to teach a new grad. I quit tgat for my own mental health it was soo awful. Now I feel defeated and like I will never learn to be a nurse. What can I do? I took a refresher course for more confidence but it did not offer clinical experience.

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You have certainly faced challenging situations that have understandably left you feeling defeated.

First, it's important to acknowledge your resilience in pursuing nursing despite the hurdles you've encountered, including multiple attempts to pass the NCLEX.

If you're going to do this and pursue a career in nursing, you will have to be persistent and strategic.

One thing is to try and never quit a job until you have another one lined up. You need to build your work history and employment, and employment gaps are a mark against you.

Given your situation, here are some steps you might consider to regain confidence and move forward in your nursing career:

  • Reflect on your experiences. Take time to reflect on what you've learned from your previous jobs, even the negative ones. What did those environments teach you about the workplace you want to be in? Understanding this can guide your next steps.
  • Consider additional training. Since your refresher course didn't offer experience, look for additional opportunities. Some programs offer short clinical placements or simulations, which could help build your skills and confidence in a safe environment.
  • Explore different settings. For now, look elsewhere beyond acute care. Consider exploring less acute or more supportive environments. The workload in long-term care facilities may also be overwhelming. Outpatient clinics or community health organizations might offer a better atmosphere for growth without the high-pressure stakes.

Mental health is crucial, especially after experiencing toxic work environments. Engage in self-care activities that help you relax and recharge, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies you enjoy. This will help improve your overall well-being.

Reassess Your Goals: Take some time to clarify what you want from your nursing career. Are there specific areas you are passionate about? Identifying your interests can help you target exciting roles, making the journey more fulfilling.

  • Network: Reach out to your nursing school alumni or local nursing associations. Networking can lead to job opportunities and provide you with support from those who understand your journey.
  • Prepare for Interviews: If you decide to apply for new positions, practice discussing your experiences honestly and positively. Focus on what you learned and how you've grown in each role, and convey your desire to continue learning.
  • Stay Persistent: Nursing is a demanding field, and it's common for new nurses to feel overwhelmed. Your determination to pursue this career is commendable; you'll find your footing with time.

Remember, many successful nurses have faced setbacks, and your path doesn't define your ability to become a great nurse. Take one step at a time, and don't hesitate to reach out for support along the way.

 

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