How to do well in school when dealing with family problems..

loriangel14, RN · Jun 4, 2013

I wen through some turbulent times during school and all I could do was focus, focus, focus.Block everything out and study.Failure was not an option.Everything else was crashing down all around me but I just kept my eyes on the prize and don't let naything stand in the way.Looking back I don't know how I did it.Things are so much better now.Best of luck.

MrsStudentNurse · Jun 4, 2013

Leave home and go to the library or a nearby cafe.

mjo07 · Jun 4, 2013

Leave and go somewhere else to study. Library, park, beach, busstop? lol As long as you can focus!

ScientistSalarian · Jun 5, 2013

I agree, study in other places as much as you can! Even when my house is peaceful I don't really get anything done (not when the Playstation is sitting right there) so I pretty much live in the library during the semester. Good luck! :)

SamanthaElizabeth · Jun 5, 2013

Firstly, I'm sorry you have to go through all of that. I know how that is. If possible, leave while you study as much as you can. Starbucks, the school library, wherever. It's really hard to focus but it is possible, I promise! Just try to see the light at the end of the tunnel! It will all be ok in the end. Best of luck!

MsKris_CarolinaGirl · Jun 5, 2013

It really sucks that you have to go through this. I find myself in that particular situation as well. I remove myself and quickly when I feel myself becoming stressed. The study rooms at the library and Barnes & Noble have quickly become some of my favorite study spots. You must remove yourself from the situation for your sake and sanity. Even if its just to study for 30 min. You've got to help yourself first and don't be afraid to let them know you need some me time. The sooner the better for you. You are your number one priority (unless you have kids). Focus on what's important to you first

MommaTy · Jun 5, 2013

I have 5 kids and many family problems. I leave my issues at the door. I still continue to study once the kids are asleep. Worked for me for 5 years of pre-reqs. I was accepted to the nursing program fall 2013. Plus work part time 7p-7:30a 2 nights a week.

duke1158 · Jun 5, 2013

I started school with the reasoning that if I was going to leave my husband, I would need to be able to support myself and my children on a realistic salary. My husband was an abusive alcoholic and has only recently become sober due to an eye opening event. I have my entire life riding on school, so I make it one of my main priorities. There was a time when I had to drive out of state to pick him up from jail (I didn't want to but the police told me I had to) and it threw my school schedule off a few days. I was so distraught. The only thing I could do was to reach out to my instructors and explain the situation. I felt embarrassed but it was my only option. It turned out that they either knew someone or were related to someone who had a problem with alcohol. It was not the end of the world and they were willing to work with me. Of course sharing your personal business should not be entered into lightly. My advice to you is to keep focused on your goal, and find a time if day to study that works best for you. Personally, I do it at night because I have little ones. Also your teachers, most of the time are not cold hearted. So if there is something that is really affecting how diligently you are able to get your assignments turned in, just explain to them what's going on and maybe they can give you some advice or work out a poa.