Hey guys! I've been a nurse for a little over a year now and just recently went to dayshift. I also just got married. I was wondering how you dayshift nurses follow up your evening after work. I have been coming home and eating supper with my husband when I get off. I usually do not make it home til 8 pm. By the time I eat it's usually 9 pm. I absolutely hate that my husband is eating supper so late. He gets home early and waits for me. Do you guys eat with your spouses? Or do you even eat supper at all after your shift? Just curious. Also I feel like a horrible wife due to my career. I work at least 4 12 hour shifts during the week. I forgot to wash my husbands work clothes last week so he didn't get them washed. Also the house is usually a mess. I came home after taking care of an actively dying patient all day and I didn't want to talk or do anything. I just wanted to decompress and fall asleep. That seemed to make my husband feel bad. I just feel like I can't win or find a balance. Advice needed!