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Hi everyone,
I've been following this forum for awhile but this is my first post, so be kind.
I am a 33-year-old stay-home mom of a 5 year old and 22-month-old triplets. I have a BS in Computer Science from Tufts University. I worked in the field for a number of years, but should never have gone into it; I am good at it and was able to get my job done, but my days dragged, I didn't enjoy the job, and basically watched the clock all day long. When I became pregnant with my first child it was already decided that I would stay home with him, as my husband makes far more than I do (he's also in to computers (network security), but he actually loves it and lives for it. Actually, that's how we met - he was my teacher's assistant for Comp 101, sophomore year. I got lots of extra help. :blushkiss
Ahem. In any case, if I could do it over again, I would have gone into medicine, probably tried for medical school, but I was 19 and confused and under pressure to pick a major that would make my parents happy. So I did.
Now, however, my children are starting school (my oldest) and in 4 years, my other 3 will start. We have sent the oldest to private school for various reasons, and feel that we will probably send the triplets there too. It is pricey but worth the cost. We can afford to send one on my husband's salary, (barely), but not 4.
I knew I was going to go back to school, and I have definitely decided on nursing; I'm not locked into a decision on a specialty but know that there are 3 that most interest me.
ANYWAY, I decided to take a class before committing to a program. Our local community college, Northern Essex Community College in Massachusetts, right on the NH line, has both a day and evening nursing program; you graduate with a LPN and can sit for the RN licensure. My plan was then to continue on and switch into a LPN->BS program where I could get my bachelor's. I don't have the ability right now to do a full-time, intensive program for direct-entry candidates like me who already have a B.S. in another area. Plus they are in Boston and a long drive from me.
In any case, I was planning on taking anatomy and physiology I this fall and II in the spring; I have been told (and am finding out) that these are the hardest classes, and I figured if I could get through these I'd get through nursing school. So far so good; I'm doing well, and I really enjoy the class, even though it's just once a week from 8-12:30 on Saturday mornings.
Here's my new problem: I just sort of assumed that since it was a local community college, that with my previous degree, good SAT scores (from a long time ago, etc.), that I wouldn't have any problem getting into the nursing program in the fall of 2006. However I was talking to another girl in my class who is doing the exact same thing as I am, and she told me that there have already been 500 applicants for 80 spots in next years' program. I had no idea it would be that competitive. I am going to make an appointment ASAP to meet with an advisor at the school, but I wanted to solicit advice from you all:
1. Has anyone here done the NECC program, and is it really as competitive as this girl said to get into? I have the standard problem of career-changers; I haven't worked in 7 years, or been to school in 12 years, so I have no recommendations except for those that I could potentially get from the teacher of the class I am taking this year (although the application is due in January).
2. Is this typical? I knew that the higher level masters' programs were competitive, especially programs like CNA and things like that, but with a huge nursing shortage I thought that they'd be actively recruiting people into nursing school, not making it difficult to get the training?
3. As far as recommendations, what have other people done who go back to nursing school after not having worked or gone to school for many years? I can possibly get one from my A&P teacher if I do extremely well and make myself known and ask quesitons, etc. He is a great teacher, though tough, and I think a recommendation from him would go far. But they require THREE. How much would a work recommendation from a different field that is 12 years old go? I don't even remember my professors' names, from college, so that's not an option.
Any advice or help would be appreciated. This is scary and new for me, as well as exciting; I have 4 children that I need to be able to send to school, and if I am able to be working in 4 years, it won't be a problem; if they weren't going to private school I could take my time but that's not an option as the public schools are not great in our otherwise nice town, especially for kids who are a little "different" but don't qualify for special needs help; my son is very high-functioning Asperger's but doesn't meet the criteria for help and my baby son is showing signs of it as well, at almost 2. This private school is very small, with a great teacher-student ratio, and an appreciation of the child as a whole, not just a cookie-cutter, as our public schools are. So far my older son is HAPPY in school for the first time in 3 years of preschool and kindergarten. He is very bright but socially awkward and immature and I knew he would be lost in public.
Sorry to ramble on so long, but hearing those numbers just made my stomach sink like lead; I had been sort of "counting" on getting in, maybe because it was a community college, and I have a degree from a very good school already, etc. However without good recommendations, what do I do?
Having finally gotten a game plan for "the rest of my life" in place, this has thrown a big monkey wrench in everything and I'm slightly panicky; I can't take the time to take classes or do relevant work experience for a couple of years, as I (a) have to take care of my triplets while they are this young, plus drive my son to/from school; (b) can't afford babysitting; that is why the evening and weekend program they offer is just so perfect!
Why is it so hard? Aren't they desperate for nurses? Then hire more teachers!! Spend money on education instead of... well, let's not go there.
Hope to hear from anyone, *especially* anyone who may have gone to NECC (Northern Essex Community College).
Thanks! I love this board, I think I'll be here for a long time.
Karen