My cousin asked me, 6 months ago what was my career goals , I told her that I want to become a Nurse ; My cousin (let's call her Mary ) has a job at this program (that I believe is a pyramid scheme ) that helps you with life problems or she claims . Mary says, that they have done a lot to help her , but she still hasn't gotten her life together . Mary's program charges six hundred dollars to start , then you pay more money as you go. She has tried everything under the sun to convince me to go, but I never bogged for 2 years . Finally I've got fed up and just told her I wasn't interested , she tried again to convince me by saying well it can help you figure out what you want to do in life . I said ," I already told you before that I wanted to become a nurse I don't need help from your program will pay for my classes I'm not gonna take my hard earn money to give it to you " .
She replied , "You've been saying that for a years and you haven't become a nurse yet , it seems like you aren't doing anything ". ( she didn't find out I wanted to be a nurse until 6 months ago )
I explained to her how long the nursing program can takes, and how expensive it can be . Fast-forward to a week ago she comes to visit , she asks me what I'm doing in school, I told her I'm currently doing pre-requisites , she then makes this " hmph" noise to insult me. Mary is a social worker currently a social work ( she studied for the test last year but has made no efforts to find a job in social work ) despite working in this program for years . Yet she she throws insults at me for the fact that I have not finished the nursing program . She knows ,my finical problems have kept me, from starting the nursing program in the past, yet she continues to insult me every chance she gets .
This makes me wonder if my cousin is jealous of me because this isn't the only thing she insults me on also insults me on my dating life as well because I have no interest in dating anyone right and makes fun of me for not having a boyfriend , yet she is depressed about not having one . It just makes me wonder what is her deal , we're all trying our best here .
Another thing that irks me is ,why on earth do people assume that the nursing program is very easy to get into ?.
Sorry for the poor Grammar
everyone ,I'm still working on getting better at it.