What I Wish I Had Known Before

Nurses General Nursing

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Before -- What?

Before becoming a nurse, of course

1. That " nursing school" has little to do with what you really do as a Real Nurse. That it is pie in the sky idealism and reality hits you right away

2. That healthcare is run by non- medical administrators, and is All About The Money. Yes, even " not for profit" hospitals.

3. That lawyers and government have caused our jobs to become daily and hourly exercises in CYA

4. That the current " customer is always right " nonsense especially in the hospitals, will be the eventual downfall of getting and retaining high- quality nurses and other HC personnel

5. How many weekends and especially holidays a nurse misses with her family.

6. That MOST (note I did not say All!) nurse co-workers will throw you under the bus in a hot second this goes for NPs, Managers , physicians as well.

7. That there is Always a call- off, always one or two on FMLA or WC, and furthermore to that it is usually the same people who do this. ( They rarely get fired )

8. There's probably 100 more but these are the main ones come to mind at this late hour

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BTW , I've been a nurse for 24 years and have worked in a variety of settings

Don't get me started on Nurses wrongly using FLMA....

Oh the place I recently left ( was there 15 years!) Was notorious for this. And the mostly- BOGUS " Workman's " Comp. I was constantly doing other peoples work. Because I didn't feel right doing same to them / the workplace. Go figure

Gave up FT, gov't employment with AWESOME health insurance.

Could Not stomach the blatant laziness and hypocrisy one more second. Truly.

Way more to the story but y'all don't have hours. It would be a dissertation

I make 1/2 of that now , NO benefits if any kind. PT gig. Thank Dog hubby could pick up the health insurance

Specializes in Urgent Care, Oncology.

I don't know anybody who has FMLA who doesn't need it.

I need it for my legitimate autoimmune disorders (Sjogren's & Ankolysing Spondylitis).

I don't know anybody who has FMLA who doesn't need it.

I need it for my legitimate autoimmune disorders (Sjogren's & Ankolysing Spondylitis).

And that's fine. That you don't know any, I mean

But that is not the case for others

I'm sorry about your AI disease.

Hmmm...

-Don't be loyal to a job. A nurse who'd been with my organization for 25+ years recently got canned. The reason was bogus but I'm pretty sure the powers that be had saved up a long list of her transgressions.

-Definitely agree that school doesn't prepare you for the career/work/job

-People who have no experience working with the patients make health care all about customer service...newsflash, the patient isn't always right!!

-There will be patients you never forget

-There will be choices made that you don't agree with (not vaccinating, terminating pregnancies, keeping someone a full code who shouldn't be...)

You know, back to the school thing for a minute :. Our nursing school spent TWO WEEKS ( Semester 1) on BED MAKING. Bed making. I seldom. actually have made a bed in my career, and certainly no one was grading me IRL about how the corners were

Yet, toward the end, LESS Than one hour was spent on IVs. Basically " this is an IV pole and pump. You will learn more about this in. whatever job you get" ( that's really how it went , too)

?????? !!!

I've always remembered this. How sad an example of a " school ". It was the only one I had at the time ; various reasons. í ½í¸¯í ½í¸•. But how very backward that was.

Specializes in Home Health/Wound care.
Schooling? It's all that way. I want to become both an RN and mechanic.

Last time I needed to go to a shop, it was for an alignment, which I can't do myself without a full on garage.

Me and the manager got to talking. He had recently hired a fresh new ASE certified mechanic (That's like the RN equivalent pretty much)

So his resume looks good on paper. Throw him in the service bay. This guy, with all the education in the world could not even change an alternator.

Honestly, it's a crying shame what education has become. More about books than real life.

I truly hope that's not a representation of the nursing program, just down the hall from the auto shop.

As to money, yes, I have received itemized statements for a hospital stay. A baby aspirin is $8.50/each.

EKG, $300.

Someone I know possibly had a heartattack one day while exercising. Mind you he is a medical professional. Knows how to interpret an EKG, knows the signs of an MI.

He refused to go to the ER for treatment, because of the cost.

Meanwhile, the CEO has oober goobers of money

Oh, but critical access hospitals are in critical condition, and SSOOO underfunded according to some news outlets.

Always about money. I can see charging a fortune for building new facilities, paying staff, upgrading equipment, but at some point the line has to be drawn.

Just my humble opinion.

I have a MSN, I can rebuild and engine, brakes, change the oil, but not be hired for the almighty acute care. My resume looks good, and I can perform all the almighty task. Its attitude, greed, and management that is killing the vibes bro's.

Just sayin

Specializes in Palliative, Onc, Med-Surg, Home Hospice.
Don't get me started on Nurses wrongly using FLMA....

I don't know anyone else who who used it wrongly, either. Because it had to be approved by an outside company, NOT the hospital. what do you consider using it wrongly?

Specializes in Dialysis.
You know, back to the school thing for a minute :. Our nursing school spent TWO WEEKS ( Semester 1) on BED MAKING. Bed making. I seldom. actually have made a bed in my career, and certainly no one was grading me IRL about how the corners were

Yet, toward the end, LESS Than one hour was spent on IVs. Basically " this is an IV pole and pump. You will learn more about this in. whatever job you get" ( that's really how it went , too)

?????? !!!

I've always remembered this. How sad an example of a " school ". It was the only one I had at the time ; various reasons. ������������. But how very backward that was.

Yes, this is how mine was as well...it was crazy

Specializes in Dialysis.
I have a MSN, I can rebuild and engine, brakes, change the oil, but not be hired for the almighty acute care. My resume looks good, and I can perform all the almighty task. Its attitude, greed, and management that is killing the vibes bro's.

Just sayin

I'm in the same boat...

Specializes in Dialysis.
I don't know anyone else who who used it wrongly, either. Because it had to be approved by an outside company, NOT the hospital. what do you consider using it wrongly?

I used to work with a lady who had it for her depression. She'd call in and use it, and later post pics on FB of her out at the bar getting liquid therapy. She eventually misjudged her time used and ran out of days and lost that job...

Schooling? It's all that way. I want to become both an RN and mechanic.

Last time I needed to go to a shop, it was for an alignment, which I can't do myself without a full on garage.

Me and the manager got to talking. He had recently hired a fresh new ASE certified mechanic (That's like the RN equivalent pretty much)

So his resume looks good on paper. Throw him in the service bay. This guy, with all the education in the world could not even change an alternator.

Honestly, it's a crying shame what education has become. More about books than real life.

I truly hope that's not a representation of the nursing program, just down the hall from the auto shop.

As to money, yes, I have received itemized statements for a hospital stay. A baby aspirin is $8.50/each.

EKG, $300.

Someone I know possibly had a heartattack one day while exercising. Mind you he is a medical professional. Knows how to interpret an EKG, knows the signs of an MI.

He refused to go to the ER for treatment, because of the cost.

Meanwhile, the CEO has oober goobers of money

Oh, but critical access hospitals are in critical condition, and SSOOO underfunded according to some news outlets.

Always about money. I can see charging a fortune for building new facilities, paying staff, upgrading equipment, but at some point the line has to be drawn.

Just my humble opinion.

This is the 2nd comment of yours I've read and it stuck out due to your desire to choose 2 professions at once...ok. Anyway, so with that I think we could compare school to real-life suckery in almost all careers, no? I had another career that required State licensure and it was so similar. Got out of school thinking I was ready. Nope! Paid my dues an then became an expert. Now I'm a novice again in a new career. I bet social workers and lawyers and teachers all start out thinking how great it will be and then are smacked the face. They eventually find balance or don't and quit.

I am not a nurse yet but I always have some disturbing scenarios and zero answers on how to handle them. How would you handle harassment from patients? I am really uncomfortable being alone left with a guy(especially old weird ones), so if you get harassed by them (touching or verbally or whatever) how do would you get out from that or is there any "security" for nurses?

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