Female Nursing Students Dont like me !

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Female Nursing Students Dont like me !

I am male nursing student . I am very lonely in my class . Nobody in my nursing class support me . It seems like they hate me or somethings .

I feel like ..I am in wrong place .

I am start wondering that ...will it be like this when I start working .

They are so competitive and I feel so minority .

Please share your feelings

I would appreciate that ...

Specializes in Med-Surg, Trauma, Ortho, Neuro, Cardiac.
I agree to a certain extent, except for when all you see in the "top" positions are the men in spite of the fact that they are in the minority in our field; that is when I become suspicious of them.

Suspicious? Odd way to feel. Are they not trustworthy just because they are in the majority of "top" positions?

Our CEO is female (and the females here hate her). In nursing there are all female directors (all hated by the females), and two male nurse managers and the rest females. So it's not like that everywhere.

Perhaps it is true, that males advance into management more than females, I don't see it and so I think it's largely myth, but apparently it's true in other facilities.

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Is it possible earthlover IS trolling? I started to get suspicious, too, because he's never responded to any of our posts in this particular thread.

I checked all other threads he's started....17 of them in fact, and he hasn't responded to one post on any of the threads he has started. If he did, I didn't see it, and I think I checked all of them.

I wish people wouldn't do that. It is a waste of my time to respond to a thread started and then the originator NEVER responds.

Certainly looks that way. Waaaay suspicious "goings on" here !

I agree that its annoying when someone posts a thread then sits back to watch the music.

Z

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In one thread he said he wanted to be a nurse anesthetist, in another thread he wants to be an instructor. And several threads are just alike only just worded a little differently.

You forgot he also wants to be an OB nurse...lol.

Sorry, but I think this is bogus.

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You forgot he also wants to be an OB nurse...lol.

Sorry, but I think this is bogus.

Yep, you're right. Well add one more to his list of "specialty want to's"

Gee whiz, ya think you're helping someone out by taking time to write a response, and find out they're just playing ya. What a crock.

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Certainly looks that way. Waaaay suspicious "goings on" here !

I agree that its annoying when someone posts a thread then sits back to watch the music.

Z

Hello Friends ,

Thank you very much for Sharing all your feeling .

I am very glad to get support from you guys .

It makes me feel that there are lots of friends out there who have great listening ear . There is no need to be suspicious about the post .

I just post them as I feel and feel like asking .

I am just a nursing students thinking about how to excel and do better

I am still confused about which kind of speciality might be appropriate for me ..

Thanks all I will keep in touch more this weekend

[email protected]

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Certainly looks that way. Waaaay suspicious "goings on" here !

I agree that its annoying when someone posts a thread then sits back to watch the music.

Z

Hello Friends ,

Thank you very much for Sharing all your feeling .

I am very glad to get support from you guys .

It makes me feel that there are lots of friends out there who have great listening ear . There is no need to be suspicious about the post .

I just post them as I feel and feel like asking .

I am just a nursing students thinking about how to excel and do better

I am still confused about which kind of speciality might be appropriate for me ..

Thanks all I will keep in touch more this weekend

[email protected]

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Specializes in OB.

It is possible that earthlover123 is limited in his English skills, maybe doesn't grasp the concept of "replying" back... if you look at his previous threads, some of them are posted more than once. Also, he has a hearing disability. That among trying to find his place in nursing, having trouble in school and being perhaps the only male in his class makes him feel awkward and shy. I'm sure he's at least reading our replies. But after reading some of the other posters discrediting his OP, that would make him want to crawl back inside his hole even more. I know it would discourage me.

I'm going to give this guy the benefit of the doubt. Hopefully he isn't pulling our legs. And if he isn't... earthlover123, a lot of these nurses/student nurses have good advice for you. Be confident, be yourself and I'm sure everything will work out for you.

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Specializes in OB.

Well... there you have it. He just replied. Good luck with everything, earthlover123. :)

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Certainly looks that way. Waaaay suspicious "goings on" here !

I agree that its annoying when someone posts a thread then sits back to watch the music.

Z

Hello Friends ,

Thank you very much for Sharing all your feeling .

I am very glad to get support from you guys .

It makes me feel that there are lots of friends out there who have great listening ear . There is no need to be suspicious about the post .

I just post them as I feel and feel like asking .

I am just a nursing students thinking about how to excel and do better

I am still confused about which kind of speciality might be appropriate for me ..

Thanks all I will keep in touch more this weekend

[email protected]

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Hello Friends ,

Thank you very much for Sharing all your feeling .

I am very glad to get support from you guys .

It makes me feel that there are lots of friends out there who have great listening ear . There is no need to be suspicious about the post .

I just post them as I feel and feel like asking .

I am just a nursing students thinking about how to excel and do better

I am still confused about which kind of speciality might be appropriate for me ..

Thanks all I will keep in touch more this weekend

[email protected]

Ok...what year are you in ?

Z :)

Are you having some difficulties ? With the computer that is ?

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It is possible that earthlover123 is limited in his English skills, maybe doesn't grasp the concept of "replying" back... if you look at his previous threads, some of them are posted more than once. Also, he has a hearing disability. That among trying to find his place in nursing, having trouble in school and being perhaps the only male in his class makes him feel awkward and shy. I'm sure he's at least reading our replies. But after reading some of the other posters discrediting his OP, that would make him want to crawl back inside his hole even more. I know it would discourage me.

I'm going to give this guy the benefit of the doubt. Hopefully he isn't pulling our legs. And if he isn't... earthlover123, a lot of these nurses/student nurses have good advice for you. Be confident, be yourself and I'm sure everything will work out for you.

Thank you. Sure seems that a lot of people have sort of a hostile and suspicious mind set from the get go. "He's kinda different, he doesn't respond THE WHAY WE WOULD WANT HIM TO, let's label him a troll or whatever..."

I don't think that that's a great way to be for a nurse and for anyone for that matter. And even if he was a troll, which I don't think he is, it's still an interesting toppic.

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Hello Friends ,

Thank you very much for Sharing all your feeling .

I am very glad to get support from you guys .

It makes me feel that there are lots of friends out there who have great listening ear . There is no need to be suspicious about the post .

I just post them as I feel and feel like asking .

I am just a nursing students thinking about how to excel and do better

I am still confused about which kind of speciality might be appropriate for me ..

Thanks all I will keep in touch more this weekend

[email protected]

Ok, sorry if I misjudged you, but it did get a response from you, finally.

I would, and others, too, I'm sure, appreciate it if you will participate in these discussions that you start.

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