A Life for a Life

The perfect gift is making a difference in a time when it matters the most. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

For nine months she carried him in her uterus. Made sure she gets enough sleep and was able to take her iron pills and milk regularly as advised by her Obstetrician. She read him books and let him hear classical music on her iPod because she believes it enhances brain development. She prepared well for nine long months. And now, her precious angel is excited to see the world, with contractions lasting up to five minutes.

Her initial internal exam revealed a seven centimeters cervical dilatation, she is now on active labor. She bears the painful contractions her baby is making, the passenger is eager to pass through the inlet. Contractions became severe, and then her water bag broke. She couldn't take it anymore, she has the urge to push. The nurses transferred her to the delivery room, placed her on lithotomy position, and draped her. As the baby's head is crowning, she didn't hesitate to push well and hard, for this good, long push would deliver her angel.

And finally, she heard him, the evidence of his good respiratory effort. As he take his first breath of life and cries to his heart's content, she just couldn't help but make some tears as well. Then, she cuddled him. The warmth of his mother's embrace assured him he is safe.

This is the miracle of life that we, delivery room nurses experience every day.

Some says nursing in a day to day aspect spells b-o-r-i-n-g. Patients being admitted, then treated, they are taken care of, some gets better, while some moves on with their Creator. It's a life-saving duty of rounds and routine. But that's not the true for me. Life became a big tangible thing every time I witness a birth of a child. For me, it is life's ultimate manifestation: life springs from life itself.

This realization challenged me. What have I done to protect this precious life that I'm carrying in my arms? As I wrap him up with his blankets, will he be kept warm as he grows? As I latch him on his mother's breast, will he be nurtured well in life? As I bathe him with mild soap, will he be able to survive the harsh future? The essence of nursing which is caring does not only limit on what's here and now. But most importantly on what lies ahead of our patients. And in my case, my newborns.

Nursing school has taught me that some metabolic diseases will seem unnoticeable upon birth. These metabolic diseases like Phenylketonuria and Congenital Hypothyroidism may lead to severe mental retardation and even death. Infants with metabolic disorders would look normal upon birth, without the clinical signs and symptoms. These diseases are manageable if detected and treated early. And this is through Newborn Screening.

Here in the Philippines, a law, Republic Act #9288, was passed to support Newborn Screening. This act gives directive to health institutions to include Newborn Screening in the newborn care routine. 33,000 Filipino children affected by these disorders can be saved through screening. These children will be given a quality of life that every child deserves, an opportunity to live freely without the burden of being "abnormal" as some bullies call mentally challenged kids here in our country. Without the shame, stigma and the physical hardships, childhood dreams will come true, all 33,000 of them.

It is a privilege and a responsibility that our birthing home upholds and conducts Newborn Screening. Our doctors, nurses and midwives do not only act as collecting agents. Part of our duty as Newborn Screening advocates is to educate families especially in remote communities about the importance of this test.

Difficulties arise when parents cannot meet the expense of having their infants screened despite knowing its significance. Most Filipino parents cannot even offer decent food on the table with their meager income. Parents would rather focus on living in a daily basis than to consider the future health of the family. And this is true to the 60% marginalized Filipino families.

Seeing that poverty prevents the goal of the health sector to screen all Filipino newborns, we decided to take part in this battle cry for equality, that health should be made available to all.

Through the initiative of our doctors, nurses and midwives, we organized a Newborn Screening Fun Run, a fund-raising activity to help sponsor the screening of newborns from the poorest of the poor families. We have gathered almost 300 participants who jogged, walked and run to support one common goal-to screen every infant upon birth.

This seems too good to be true, but it happened. It was a sight to behold, seeing a sea of people wearing the same running shirt and advocating for the same purpose. Most of our participants were community health workers, teachers and students. They didn't only increase awareness of Newborn Screening to the public but they have helped give free screening to infants of underprivileged families. I can only imagine the lives that will be saved through this activity and the children who will be given second chances to live a healthier life.

So far, we have already given free Newborn Screening to a number of infants. Results were in, and it's a good thing that none were tested positive in any of the five metabolic diseases. Positive results would trigger a sigh of relief. For this would mean we've met our goal, which is early detection and in response would lead to early treatment. This hand in hand fight to promote Newborn Screening has been our pledge to the community. Together, we will zero in chances of mental retardation and death caused by congenital metabolic diseases.

This power-in-number activity broadened my understanding of the gift of life. It revealed a whole new meaning in my duty as a nurse. That nurses are not just here to serve and save lives, nurses are protectors of life as well. Because more than anything else, I believe it is my life that has been the best present I have received.

Then it made me remember. Once upon a time, in a cold night in Bethlehem, a child was born. A carpenter's son was born on a manger under a bright star. Not a single principle of sterility was observed. This child was believed to bring hope. He was believed to save humanity. And He did, 33 years after when he died on the cross. This season, we are celebrating his birth. And this season is the perfect time to give back.

Specializes in School Nursing.
You should've left out the last paragraph.

Why? The article is about how an event sparked realizations for the author. Why should she edit her own natural response to the events. You could have stopped reading. She should not have to speak half-truths when she is speaking of her own experience.

"To the negative posters, if you don't believe in God, then who do you believe in? Or are you afraid to say because we might disagree? Who do you talk to when you are frustrated, or angry, or mad, or disappointed? Anyone? Are we not, as nurses, taught to be culturally and spiritually sensitive to others, whether patient or fellow nurse? If one hasn't attended a birth or given birth, then they can't possibly know the emotions that run through the mother, the family, or even the caregiver at the time."

That sounds like an attack! I'm not afraid to say how I feel. I don't believe in a magicman in the sky. When I need to, I have friends & family to talk to. I've noticed how insensitive Christians can be to those that don't believe the same as them. Yes I've given birth & know the emotions at the time.

Specializes in School Nursing.
"To the negative posters, if you don't believe in God, then who do you believe in? Or are you afraid to say because we might disagree? Who do you talk to when you are frustrated, or angry, or mad, or disappointed? Anyone? Are we not, as nurses, taught to be culturally and spiritually sensitive to others, whether patient or fellow nurse? If one hasn't attended a birth or given birth, then they can't possibly know the emotions that run through the mother, the family, or even the caregiver at the time."

That sounds like an attack! I'm not afraid to say how I feel. I don't believe in a magicman in the sky. When I need to, I have friends & family to talk to. I've noticed how insensitive Christians can be to those that don't believe the same as them. Yes I've given birth & know the emotions at the time.

Those are your beliefs and you are entitled to state them. Just as the OP is. How is that insensitive? I think telling the OP what she should or should not write about her personal experiences is far more insensitive.

Wonderful article. To the nay sayers I have one question. Do you react negatively to a patient who expresses his or her belief? I thank God-yes God -that there are nurses out there who have such a loving compassionate heart to care for her patient and bring about life giving change! Bravo!!!

Specializes in LTC, Agency, HHC.
"To the negative posters, if you don't believe in God, then who do you believe in? Or are you afraid to say because we might disagree? Who do you talk to when you are frustrated, or angry, or mad, or disappointed? Anyone? Are we not, as nurses, taught to be culturally and spiritually sensitive to others, whether patient or fellow nurse? If one hasn't attended a birth or given birth, then they can't possibly know the emotions that run through the mother, the family, or even the caregiver at the time."

That sounds like an attack! I'm not afraid to say how I feel. I don't believe in a magicman in the sky. When I need to, I have friends & family to talk to. I've noticed how insensitive Christians can be to those that don't believe the same as them. Yes I've given birth & know the emotions at the time.

No, it is not meant to be an attack...it's a question. Are we, or are we not taught to be sensitive to others who have different cultures and beliefs?

Specializes in Peds, Med-Surg, Disaster Nsg, Parish Nsg.

Let's remember........this is the OP's article. She is free to write what she feels and believes in as long as she keeps her comments within the Terms of Service of the site.......which she did.

Some other comments, on the other hand, have crossed the lines. Per the Terms of Service, "you are permitted to disagree with anyone on any type of subject matter as long as your criticism is constructive and polite." Some of the responses have been rude and non-contributory, and can be viewed as personal attacks.

If you disagree with any post, you have 2 choices: post a polite rebuttal.....or move on without response.

Further personal attacks will be removed.

tnbutterfly

co-administrator

It seems as though every other religion has freedom of speech but Christianity. I don't understand why those who do not believe get so angry and bitter with those who do. I don't get angry with Atheists, Muslims, Buddhists, etc. It makes me sad that such a great article has to be brought down with negative comments because the OP accepted a gift from Jesus and is now following what the bible instructs us to do - "Go into all the world and preach the good news to all creation" Mark 16:15. No need to be so angry with the OP. Put your checkbook away. Your heart wasn't truly in it anyway if the OPs religion is the only thing stopping you. It was a great article, OP. You didn't have to leave out the last article. You are doing a wonderful thing. I will be praying for you. :)

Regardless of the last paragraph which is expressing your opinion and feelings which I also believe, this article was a wonderful reminder that all people of all colors, religion and nationality especially healthcare professionals should respect the lives of other from prenatal to death.

Specializes in OB, HH, ADMIN, IC, ED, QI.

As a Jew I wasn't upset by the OP's last paragraph. It is Christmas-time, after all! Let's also consider the background of the OP. She's a Philippina living, working, and educated in the Philippines where Catholicism is the religion of overwhelmingly all of the people there. How must she feel about the judgmental comments, after writing with difficulty, in almost perfect English, that long and well written post?

Let's not lose sight of the point of her post!

It is necessary to help thiose without the money required for it, to live healthier lives! Often we are very intolerant of other nurses who aren't in "lock" step in other ways, with most of us. I've suspected that I lost a job because of who I am, and then I'm not proud of that thought, even though I couldn't think of any other reason for that loss - and I wasn't given any other reason.

I had requested time off for a Jewish religious holiday, had obtained a nurse for to replace me. The nurse in charge who was responsible for that, was from the Phillipines. She had very little, if any experience with someone of my faith, and I'm sure her upbringing made her believe that anyone who isn't Christian, is a bad person.

Lucky for all of us who aren't Christian, that and other prejudicial beliefs/myths are the exception, and not the rule now, as evidenced by some of the responses herein. However we should be careful about bending so far over to include other beliefs in our circle of approval, that we "diss" those who exhibit naevite, because their culture hasn't changed to include respect for everyone. Some Jews, in our zeal to take pride in ourselves and our religious practises, also have offended others, which could be one reason why we are the object of prejudice sometimes.

I suspect as well, that the poster of comment #5 who confused the belief in God, with the belief in Jesus as his/her son/daughter is someone who believes that both must be held. Jews believe in God, the same one as Christians do, but exclude the possibility that Jesus could be the messiah/son of God. Jesus was a Jew, even a member of the Jewish clergy as were some of his disciples. It is the declaration of the belief that he, and not all people descend directly from God, that makes our observance of religion different. Jews also don't believe that heaven and hell exist as reward/penalty for living (or not) according to good ethical practises.

Some of us also believe in hygienic, since outmoded beliefs that having milk and dairy products on the same plates, using the same cutlery as meat is served, is wrong. So they have 2 sets of dishes and cutlery that are only for meat, or only for dairy. That could be why the jealous thought arose that all Jews are wealthy, when clearly we are not.

In order to have peace within us all for our own choice of religion, and not make individual assessments of what is good, and what is not rule how we think of others' beliefs, we all need to let others live according to their own beliefs, and be harmonious. Wars are still being fought to this day about whose religion is right. Sufficient is the belief that those who harm others intentionally, are not right. Please lay down those swords, whether in words or deeds!!

Wonderful article. To the nay sayers I have one question. Do you react negatively to a patient who expresses his or her belief? I thank God-yes God -that there are nurses out there who have such a loving compassionate heart to care for her patient and bring about life giving change! Bravo!!!

Now woah there nellie....

Are you saying that I cannot have a loving compaasionate heart unless I am a Christian?

I am not a Christian and I assure you that I have a loving and compassionate heart....

I thought it was beautiful and to those who are spiritual an infant represents the ultimate spirituality, the purity of new life, the gift of a promise to mankind. Enjoy the post and do not get wound up in the religion/no religion aspects. We all share the joy of holding a baby whether we believe it comes from God or just from the perpetuity of life. Those who do not believe in God should appreciate life more than anyone, for to them this is it, a one shot deal.

Specializes in LTC, Agency, HHC.
Now woah there nellie....

Are you saying that I cannot have a loving compaasionate heart unless I am a Christian?

I am not a Christian and I assure you that I have a loving and compassionate heart....

No, I don't think she meant that. People can have kind and loving hearts and not be Christian. I think it is the comments of the people who are telling the OP she should have left out the last paragraph because it upsets them.