Published Dec 5, 2011
junebugger
10 Posts
Hi, this is my first post. I have looked at other posts, but they all seem to be very old... 2009 or earlier. Anyway, here is my situation. I was accepted into the Barnes Jewish Nursing program in St Louis. I was originally accepted into the accelerated program, but decided that wasn't going to work with a newborn at all. Anyway, I am due June 21st and classes would start Sept 15. So... I would be a new mom and starting nursing school too. I know this is my decision and I want to do what is best for my child. I am 33 and really don't want to put off school any longer. I already have a teaching degree, but can not find a job. My husband was in the military and so we traveled a lot... We will be moving again within the next 3-5 years. Teachers don't get hired very easily when you move around a lot.
Ok, so I guess what I'm looking for is some advice. Has anyone gone to nursing school with a newborn at home or am I completely nuts for even considering this?
Thanks
Esme12, ASN, BSN, RN
20,908 Posts
Hi, this is my first post. I have looked at other posts, but they all seem to be very old... 2009 or earlier. Anyway, here is my situation. I was accepted into the Barnes Jewish Nursing program in St Louis. I was originally accepted into the accelerated program, but decided that wasn't going to work with a newborn at all. Anyway, I am due June 21st and classes would start Sept 15. So... I would be a new mom and starting nursing school too. I know this is my decision and I want to do what is best for my child. I am 33 and really don't want to put off school any longer. I already have a teaching degree, but can not find a job. My husband was in the military and so we traveled a lot... We will be moving again within the next 3-5 years. Teachers don't get hired very easily when you move around a lot. Ok, so I guess what I'm looking for is some advice. Has anyone gone to nursing school with a newborn at home or am I completely nuts for even considering this?Thanks
Yes people have gone to nursing school with infants, babies and children. I had a friend many years ago in school pregnant with twins....she did it with the help of family and friends. I hate to be the bearer of bad news but nurses don't get hired very easily when you move around alot either especially in this job market. There is a surplus of nurses and many nurses and new grads cannot find work, the news is wrong there is no shortage. Jobs may be listed but they aren't hiring and many places won't hire new grads at all.....
Go into nursing if is what you really want.......but if it's because you can't find a job find another career as you are going to spend a ton of money and still not have a job. I am so sorry to tell you this and I wish you the best of everything....a safe pregnancy, a safe delivery, a healthy baby and a good career....:heartbeat
Thanks for the quick response. I am looking for a job that I love... I liked teaching, but never loved it. Lots to think about still. I have a while until I need to completely decide, but I appreciate your honesty about the job market. I am hoping this next move is out last. Anyway, I guess I was hoping the job market would eventually open up, but how are you supposed to get experience if they won't hire you? Thanks again... back to my pros and cons list.
Honey, If you really want to be a nurse.....be one! I just wanted you to know what is out there right now. Nursing always changes and may be a completely different market by then (I hope so). I have been a nurse for 32 years and I have never regretted a second....God bless :)
hirschkelly
1 Post
Hi! My name is Kelly and I think it's great that you are going to be a mom and wanting a career. There is nothing wrong with doing both. With the support from you husband and family you will do great. Speaking from experience, don't put your schooling off any longer. I am now 41 years old and working towards getting my nursing degree and believe me I wish I would have done it long ago. I waited to raise my son and feel as though I could have done both too but, didn't have the support. You are going to be a great mom and nurse. Good Luck!!
Iridescent Orchid, CNA, LPN
597 Posts
You can do it with the understanding and support from friends and family members. I've seen plenty of nursing students go into the program with babies, toddlers, or teens. If you want nothing more than to have a nursing career in your future and for your child, go for it with your head held high! You'll be able to do this. Since you will be moving, there are always great childcare facilities to look into for your child's care, even as an infant. Best of luck to you! Go ahead and follow your dreams! :)
mzthang2260
106 Posts
Most clinical sites don't allow pregnant students to train at their hospitals so that's when the school come in and tell You that you cannot continue in the program. I've seen it happen all the time that's why I know. I'm not sure why this is but maybe it's because if anything should happen to you they don't want to be liable. Speak to your nursing coordinator up front and see if this is going to be a problem. What they usually do is tell you to take time off and hold your seat for you until you have the baby.
Thanks for all the support! I still plan on starting in Sept. I know it will be no walk in the park, but I think I can do it. I'll have the baby in June, so being pregnant won't be an issue once I begin... I'll just be dealing with little sleep and new baby issues. Thanks again for all your support!:)
Getting To Great
531 Posts
A friend of mine had twin via c-section last week and went back to work this week. As long as you have a support system, then you will be fine. It is very doable. GL.
Skips, MSN, RN
518 Posts
I think you can definitely do it! It's going to be plenty of work, but it's doable. You will have about 2.5 months to get ready for school after the baby is born, so it's not going to be too bad. (: Be sure to get as much support as you can. Good luck with everything, and congrats on the baby AND getting accepted into school!
tas026
44 Posts
I have a friend doing the nursing classes, working 20 hours a week, and taking care of 3 children (one with disabilities). I am a firm believer in the phrase, "If there's a will, there's a way." If you really want this, you can do it. You will just have to be really good with your time management. Even though we know the baby will be cute, you will have to put him/her down for a little while to study! Don't procrastinate-if there's a single second when you can be studying, then do! :) You will do great!
ad3vans
19 Posts
Good luck! You got this! I think what you're doing is great. I understand completely because I have a baby myself and I am starting nursing school this coming semester. My baby is 10 months old though. I ll ne driving 3hours every day to go to school. But it will all be worth it. So hang in there it is only two years!