Re: I want to know what nurses think about socialized medicine. Originally Posted by saarein
Your basic innate recognition of a human right to healthcare would be the compassion of healing and care-giving, not robbing from me and giving to others who have had the chance to prosper and pull themselves up by the bootstraps the way I learned to do. I grew up in a very poor neighborhood and was among those who were looked upon as being dirt poor, but my father decided that his children were not going to be labeled the same way he had been. I was the first in my family (both sides) to graduate from college. I find it very discouraging when those in power and some of us not in power to lower all the standards so those who are "less fortunate" may be able to be taken care of. Well, it is my experience that if there are no expectations, you will not go that extra mile to prove that you are able to. I don't mind helping, I give to my church and also give on a regular basis to four charities. I have heard over the years people stating that a person can be one heartbeat away from being homeless(homeless, by the way, does not always mean one is out on the street or sleeping in cars; it can mean you just don't have a place of your own. You could be living with relatives or friends). I beg to differ with them, I will not be homeless. My fathers display of hard work (working 2 jobs all his life) and his wanting to give his children a future has been enough for me to know that the human spirit is stronger than those in power want us to believe. Times have changed and I'm sure there are plenty of people who don't remember when there wasn't a lot of free things. Those were hard times, I certainly remember, but my family got through it. I'm sorry if I have been rambling on and on, but I just don't understand the mind-set of people who will not or think they cannot take care of their own.

While I respect your views, there are so many variables here. I, like you, was the first to graduate from college. I have worked to pay my own way since I was 12-years old (so yes, I have paid my taxes). I then worked 3 jobs to put myself through college to become a nurse, while raising a child and having another.
I always thought that if you worked hard, you could make it here in America. Always. I have never received nor asked for a 'hand out'...until now. You see, while I am a nurse, I quit to care for my terminally ill mother. I had saved enough to keep my family going (I am now a single mother of 3), never dreaming the economy would take a dive forcing all the retired nurses back into the field ending the 'nurse shortage'.
I have had cancer myself 3 times in my life. I always was fortunate to have both health insurance, as well as disability insurance to get my little family through. However, right now, it has come back again and I cannot get any healthcare. I can't get PA because I can't 'prove' that I don't work. I also cannot get any foodstamps. I have never had to use the sytem before, but it seems that after going back to the PA offices and being turned down the 7th time, I would be able to get some assistance...but I can't.
I just wonder, after working all the years that I have. Helping/donating whatever I could...now I am so scared that I may not make it and then I will leave my children here alone...with nobody to help them and with so much debt (and quite honestlly, the thought of dying in pain doesn't thrill me much either). I tried to go to the health clinic but they won't do any necessary tests...I suppose if it gets bad enough, I could go to the ER, but this cost would just go to my estate ie, my children, or to all of you, the taxpayers. Prevention or even tx at the clinic is minimal at best.
Over the past 2 years I have had to watch my aunt die of breat cancer (insurance), my uncle die of brain CA with mets to his bones (no insurance-thus no treatment til it was to late), another uncle passed with skin melanoma 11 1/2 months later(on SS with limited insurance), and my mother with lung CA 2 weeks after him (insurance).
This said not to illicit pity but to get to some of you that maybe thinking that it is only those that don't want to work that may somehow just be trying to get something else for free, just isn't so. At this point I'm probably just too tired of 'trying' ... to get a job when there isn't one...to get treatment...to save my house etc.
I don't know the answer to our delemma in healthcare. But I do think that there is a better way. I don't think I have the 'right' to take from you what you have worked hard to have. I don't even think that I have the 'right' to healthcare at the expense of others. I don't want to be a leech in society. I think.. I just want to live. I think I just don't want to leave my children here alone...with nothing and nobody to help them. If I don't make it, there will be more humans that WILL need government assistance. I just have to wonder, what would you do? When all avenues for you are used up? When you have sold all you can sell because you are too ill to work. You're savings are gone. You have to sell your life insurance policy. What would you (readers) do?
Instead of bickering here, pointing fingers or being angry, perhaps we as a collective group of nurses, should come together to offer a workable solution. LOOK at the truth (not spoken by the media or elected government officials or by knee jerk reactions of people who are to afraid of change to even hear what this change may entail) but at the facts as so many nurses here have given us all links to among many others not posted here. We have faught too long against each other...can't we at least be open enough to try and understand. This is our future. This is the future of nursing. If you keep fighting, we will get whatever the govenment wants to give us, not what WE decide.
Sorry this was so long, besides the fact that I am long-winded, reading the nurse-against-nurse comments has me feeling so sad. We are such a compassionate, intelligent group of people I just don't understand.
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