This is just to gripe because I'm upset. I started doing private duty (as a private contractor) and had originally agreed to three days a week. Of course, at the end of the shift I was working Saturday the night help called in. I was scheduled to work 24 hours the next day so by staying all night and then the next day I would have been there 48 hrs.. I called the staffing agency and they told me to let the family know I was going to have to go home. Well, the patient (who is very whiney) starts complaining I can't stay here by myself! I know they didn't tell you to go home! So, sucker I am, I stayed the night. The next morning I called the staffing agency and reminded them it was not legal to work more than 24 hours in a row and they told me if her family was not going to come sit with her she would have to sit by herself. So, I left.
This patient has family next door who WILL NOT come to sit with their mother, even though it was supposed to be explained to them when they got this Medicaid service that 24 hr care could not be guaranteed and there has to be a willing and able family member who will take over care of the patient if a shift cannot be covered. The patient has a big strong teenage grand daughter but said her mother wouldn't let her miss church to come stay with her (it was Sunday morning). And the daughter who won't miss church also has a heart condition and can't come take care of her mother, even though all you do is literally SIT with this patient all day, nothing strenuous at all. And it's funny that she can't come sit with her mother because of her heart but she regularly goes shopping and runs up and down the road all day in her vehicle...
Anyway...
I left and even though I came back 6 hrs. later the family was absolutely furious that I left the patient. They all say there is a nurse who regularly stays a lot longer than 24 hrs. and that I'm lying about it being against the law to do more than 24. I was personally told by someone from the state board of nursing that it most certainly is against the law.
Then, the busy body (who is a single person) who the family brags on for staying up to 60 hours at a time tells me not to leave the patient like that again when I see her later in the week. I don't apologize and I say if the family doesn't want the patient to be by herself THEY can come sit with her. After all, I have three small kids and an invalid husband and I don't really have a choice about whether to leave for days at a time or not. So she backs down after that and says she understands.
The family hates me but the patient thinks I'm wonderful (even though she was mad at me because I left.) And since I don't have any other real job prospects at the time I guess I don't have much of a choice, either. So, when the family does stop by for five minutes they sneer at me and I sneer back. But I hate working in conditions like this.
It is causing my stomach to hurt. It seems like you will either be walked on or make yourself look like a selfish uncaring ***** if you stand up for yourself. The family could care less I had responsibilities at home and was not going to abandon my family. And I was also told by the state board of nursing that home care is different from the hospital or nursing home and that after you have been at the patient's home a reasonable amount of time it IS NOT abandonment to leave. Nurses I tell this to don't believe me, though.
I do have one nurse there who is sympathetic to the situation, though, and says she has left before. I still wish Scotty would beam me up.