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This is a discussion on PDN...Facebook friend?? in Private Duty Nursing, part of Nursing Specialties ... So I have read through various threads on here about being "friends" with your patients on facebook...by Ms_Bee Oct 19, '11So I have read through various threads on here about being "friends" with your patients on facebook but not from any who work in private duty. I would like to know what is your take on this issue. It my opinion the situation is a little different than meds-surge since we are often in these patients home Monday-Friday for several hours out of the day. My patient is 2 years old so dont really have an issue with becoming "friends" but have heard of nurses becoming "friends" with the patients family (i.e mom, dad, aunt, uncle). I think its important to keep that professional boundary but can see how easy it is to become friends with the family when you've been on a case several years. What do you think? Can you maintain a professional boundary with your patient but not the family?
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- Oct 19, '11 by talaxandraI've twice had friend requests from patients, once in person and once online from a patient who'd gone to rehab, was a nurse at another hospital, and was friends with one of my colleagues prior to admission.
In neither case was I tempted. I think there's a massive potential for bad outcomes and very litle to gain.
However, I was talking about the ethics of this at uni with my superviser (who's co-founder of a paediatric bioethics unit) and a paediatrician. The former was talking about the murkiness of blurring boundaries; the latter said he's getting an increasing number of requests from adolescents, and refusing friending could get in the way of the therapeutic relationship. So he had two FB accounts - one for friends and family, and one for patients and (to a lesser degree) colleagues.
Reading this back I'm not sure I've actually helped - sorry!
- Oct 19, '11 by caliotter3The clients are capable of doing enough damage simply by using the telephone. Not necessary to add a social network site scenario as another avenue to hold something over the head of the nurses. Don't think for one minute that the family is not aware that this is inappropriate and unprofessional on the part of the nurses. Whenever there is fallout over nurses crossing professional boundaries, it is the nurse who ends up without work and the family just goes on with the agency and new nurses. They get wise to this.
- Oct 19, '11 by CrunchRNJust tell them it is 'against company policy" no matter how things may be now this is a very slippery slope.....
- Oct 19, '11 by KateRN1Patients/families shouldn't be your friends. Your friends shouldn't be your patients/families. There is no blurring or greying of the lines. It really is very simple.
- Oct 19, '11 by MsRN247I'm totally against it!
I think keeping the professional/personal social life boundary is important. Could it possibly lead to be a HIPAA violation?
- Oct 20, '11 by ventmommyI am friends with one former nurse that we adored. She stayed with us through her pregnancy and her baby was born with serious health issues. She decided to not return to nursing. She sent us a friend request and I accepted.
I think 2 other nurses have sent requests and I just told them that I'd rather not friend them because I belong to lots of mom groups on FB and need a place to complain. Also, I wouldn't want any hurt feelings when my status is something like "Nurse so-and-so is such a great nurse. I wish she could show up on time!"
- Oct 20, '11 by systolyWhat is to be gained from friending someone? (I don't do facebook)
It seems to me that interacting with a pt. or pt's family on a social network is indeed socializing/hanging out. Bad idea.
- Oct 21, '11 by KyasiI posted a question about this a month or so ago to get everyone's opinion. I have found out that lots of my HHA's have friended their patients on F.B. (most of them don't have privacy settings on their accounts) We have a Code of Ethics that states that a caregiver will not share personal information, religious/political views, personal problems etc with their patient. All this is shared on F.B. and more (sexual preference?) Our Code of Ethics was written before F.B. was popular so doesn't expressly refer to that. My feeling is that it is crossing professional boundaries in every way.
Ventmommy, the nurse you friended is no longer working for you, so I don't think that is a problem.
I did PD nursing for 20 yrs and I understand the relationship that develops w/the families. It's difficult to keep that line from being blurred but you really have to. Every time you allow that line to move back, the professional relationship is compromised and eventually someone, the patient or caregiver, gets uncomfortable with it. I see this all the time. There were things that I knew other nurses would do on one case I was on. (ex: transporting the patient from a grandparents house to her house (while the mother was gone) I just wouldn't break policy no matter how close of a relationship I had with the parent... no way, no how. Always error on the side of caution.
- Oct 22, '11 by Ms_BeeI agree with you all. I do not think its the best idea to become friends on facebook with your patients. There was a unique circumstance that happened to my one of my nursing school friends where she went to school with her patients moms sister (they were acquaintances). They hadnt seen each other in years and then met again through the pt and are now "friends" on facebook. Im kinda on the fence about that one??
"I did PD nursing for 20 yrs and I understand the relationship that develops w/the families. It's difficult to keep that line from being blurred but you really have to. Every time you allow that line to move back, the professional relationship is compromised and eventually someone, the patient or caregiver, gets uncomfortable with it. I see this all the time. There were things that I knew other nurses would do on one case I was on. (ex: transporting the patient from a grandparents house to her house (while the mother was gone) I just wouldn't break policy no matter how close of a relationship I had with the parent... no way, no how. Always error on the side of caution."
Kyasi- I know exactly what you mean as far as seeing other nurses do things that cross the line. I have heard of other nurses baptizing their patients, lending their patients parents their credit cards, purchasing furniture for them, working with their niece/nephew etc. And I do agree with you, at times its very difficult to keep that line from being crossed because you spend so much time with these families but its very important to keep it from being crossed. Im pretty new to pdn (<1yr) and I understand the importance of keeping a professional relationship but at times get confused by it. At what point do you cross the line. I dont necessarily see being friendly and having a fun/joking (but still professional) relationship crossing the line. Sometimes the parents need a laugh once and a while. But I think once you take that off work hours then to me thats crossing the line bc then that would be like having a friend. What do you all think?