Re: I need advice. PLEASE ANY INPUT!!!
You could get your ADN, start working and do an immediate bridge. The high-stress "nursing" classes and clinicals will be out of the way... no worries of getting kicked out if you get sick or break an arm, etc. (< it happens!) Bridge as you feel fit. Some of the people I graduated with did an immediate bridge and it's only 1 extra year of accelerated classes. What they have that the direct BSN students don't have is that they've already passed boards and are licensed and working ... so an RN who has bridged from ADN to BSN can have an advantage.
Like you, I have a ton more credits than I needed for my ADN, but I wanted to spend more time with my family before going back, like when my kids are out of the house (won't be long -sniff) I am thinking of doing the ADN to MSN program. The counselor I met with said I will be able to shave off &/or test out of a few classes by going directly to MSN.
Apply to several programs and see which you get accepted to --- that might make the decision for you.
Good luck.
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