I tried to e-mail you, but it came back with a failure notice. I tried to post an answer, but kept getting kicked back to the question. It's spooky, spooky. Never had this happen before.
Here's a site you may want to check out, if you haven't already:
Type in tonsillectomy at the search box and it will pull up some articles for you. It will even tell you if these articles are for parents, kids, or teens.
Good luck to you and your daughter!!!!!