Re: Pain is NOT subjective
Ok, this pressed so many of my hot buttons.

First of all, I have Fibromyalgia. It's not a "made up thing". It has taken years away from my life. I have struggled to work, and have struggled with the pain. I am a chronic pain patient. I believe in what ever you can think of as adjunct medication and alternate pain management treatments for controlling pain. The issue of pain control is when you can no longer take neurontin, ibuprofen, naproxyn, TENS, massage, acupunture, aquatherapy, etc...because you don't get a good outcome anymore. I can't take muscle relaxers because of all the side effects. So I am left with opiods and valium. Yes, I take anti-depressants, I exercise, I try to eat right, and I try to be a productive member of society.
Three years ago, a 250 lb patient fell on me and I got HURT. With FM, that just make it hurt more. The Workman's Comp Doc(#$%#$%@quack) liked doing acupuncture with electrostim- after I told him I couldn't tolerate electrical therapy after having used a TENS for 10 years. He did it anyway. That was about all he had to offer.
W/C says that because pain is subjective, despite the pain that this back injury left me with, I can't get a disability rating; and yet, working full time is extremely difficult for me. Right now I'm working three 8's a week, and that's about as much as I can do without becoming overly exhausted and calling in sick.

I have had mutliple surgeries and I know what pain med works best for me. You'd think that when I go to the ER with a paralytic ileus and tell them that A) it's an ileus and B) please start and IV and give me Dilaudid cos it works best for the pain, someone might listen. Instead I get treated like I'm a drug seeker. Then I get "the look" and "the attitude" from the ER nurse until I start projectile vomiting with an abdomen that is rock hard, the tears are streaming down my face...for some reason, it's the vomiting

that convinces them that I really am in trouble.
However. As far as my patients are concerned; some have high pain tolerance, some not so great. I've seen appendectomy pts refuse any pain meds at all. I've seen others huddled on their gurneys, diaphorectic, squirming, crying, or whatever folks in pain do, and tried to get them something for their pain, only to meet with "I'll get there when I get there"(as an OR nurse, I don't have access to the narcotics- anesthesia does). If the person administering pain medication has never been dramatically ill, they have NO understanding of how long a minute without pain relief can be. I am a strong believer in being a patient advocate because of how I've been treated as a patient; not "just" as one with FM, but as a potential surgical patient, as a surgical patient and as noted before, someone with a paralytic ileus.
I wish that pain could be quantified better, so that the bosses, nurses, doctors, med students and residents would be able to really understand how a patient who is an 8/10 feels. I have days of 1/10, but most of my days start out at about a 4 or 5, just waking up. As the day goes by, sometimes I'm just fine and don't need anything to help out. I love those days. Not taking meds at all is a dear hope for my future. And other times, I'll awaken in the middle of the night with 8/10 from nowhere.
Opiod therapy may not be the best treatment for various patients, but on the other hand, if you have someone who comes to your ED, who was in a car wreck, has a bad back that was just re-injured, leg and head lacerations, etc, but who has a 20 year history of being clean and sober- would you deny that person pain medication for an acute situation? I have a friend like that, and he was given a very limited quantity of pain meds to help him through the situation. Would any of you consider him "drug seeking"?
BTW, low dose methadone, like low dose oxycontin or the fentanyl patch, is prescribed to keep the FM'er's level of discomfort under control as long as 8-12 hours at a time, rather than popping pills every four hours. The lowest level possible is given as a way to control the ever present pain with usually other adjuncts given as well, and possibly vicodin or percocet from break through pain. Most of the FM patients I have met/chronic pain patients as well, are mostly interested in sleeping well enough to function the next day at work. With chronic pain, sleep is disrupted and the rest of homeostasis is reduced to a shambles.
I do agree that there are drug seekers out there- seen some. THEY are the ones who make the true honest to God chronic pain patients suffer. We just want to have as normal a day as possible; they want the highs, etc of the drugs themselves. Most(agreed, a certain number do become junkies)pain patients are not drug seekers. They are simply looking for a way to have QUALITY of LIFE. Remember that from nursing school?
Very often, only people who know me well enough can tell if I am in a lot of pain. The look on my face is pretty sutble. My actions are more likely to give me away; I become crabby and abrupt and sometimes, agitated. :scrm:Suddenly, I'll realize I'm in pain and will take something. I do not deny that I have developed a mild physical tolerance over the years, but, as I pointed out, there are good days when I take nothing at all. Sometimes, when I'm lying still and trying to relax, as that patient mentions previously with the lack of pain affect, I'll be fine, til I try to get up or move. Sudeenly, there is a crescendo of sensation- as my clean and sober freind says- pain is God's way of letting you know you're alive, and baby, WE'RE REALLY ALIVE!!!
So, yes, your boss is an ass. Pain is a very subjective issue, unfortunately, and aside from the clear drug seekers, should be accepted at "face value".
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