Re: Pain is NOT subjective
When I am a patient, I have the opposite problem. Apparently, I have a fairly high pain threshold. So, I don't report pain as being very severe and I don't request "enough" pain relief for people to take me seriously as a patient.
I frequently find myself saying things like, "It doesn't hurt all that much, but I
do thinK there is something wrong here. Could you please take a closer look at this?" The doctor and/or nurses brushes me off because I don't seem to be suffering much ... and then we all have to deal with a more serious problem later because my little problem was not sufficiently treated and it grows to become a big problem.
Even when I was a child, my father (who was also my doctor) would say things like, "She's not a complainer. If she says something's wrong, there probably is." whenever he had to refer me to someone else for treatment.
I drives me crazy. I am often tempted to "over-dramatize" my report of pain just to get taken seriously.
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