Originally posted by iiwdn
WOW!! Emote away!! I don't recall anyone saying pain doesn't exist or noones pain but my own is real and needs to be treated...... and at the same time there is a universally recognized phenomena of patients who while having 10/10 pain are making out with there S/O on the gurney, would like another sandwich-- and "could you make it roast beef this time" and "oh, could you close the door while I make a few more calls 'cause I'm missing the party at my friends house". There are indeed people who use emergency depts. as personal entertainment centers, have been let go by 5 providers already and have fired another 5 because they can't get the regular 200mg hit of demerol on a standing order!! I can't believe any professional would want to deny pain relief to anyone or any situation and yet at the same time I have a difficult time with situations where I have actually bent needles trying to find a place to push the next dose around and through large patches of scar tissue caused by......... you guessed it!! It is not one or the other-- it's both and.
thank you.
that was my point 54 posts ago. however,
my opinion seemed to have sparked some anger in alot of folks who have in turn posted some rather harsh replies. well, i like the rest of the world am human. so, i replied back. it is fair to say that everyone is entitled to their own opinions. therefore,
I am entitled to mine.
i believe that there are some people out there who truley have pain. yes, i even believe it is 10/10. but the problem i have is with the people who lie about thier pain for what ever reason, addiction, attention, or ignorence. and yes, you see them every week. how many times have you presented a patient to a doc and the doc says, "well, is this pt ligit?" or "is so and so here again?" and so on.
i worked with one doc who would give a patient anything they wanted just to make them go away. he would say "you have to give these people what they want or they will never go away or they will sue you." some of the patients he had seen days in a row. now that can't be helpful to an addict, can it. so how are we supposed to feel?
i agree with you. i don't like to be lied to. i don't lie so i don't tolerate liers. period. i do what the doctor tells me because we can argue, complain, poke fun, diss, feel sorry and cry all we want but ultimatly the MD signs the orders (and or np's). so i am glad for a place to vent. thank you, mg
p.s. i have stuck those same scarred patients!
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