Re: Woman Calls C-Section "Rape" Originally Posted by Inspired By Silence
This women is blatantly insulting rape victims and that's what ****** me off the most. I know several women/girls who were sexually assaulted or abused.
No one is FORCING her to get a C-section! She's entitled to take her saggy butt to another hospital. This woman deeply disgusts me and I hold no pity for her.
I had a C-section, probably due to all of the medical interventions, rather than actual labor. I didn't figure out that had the labor been completely natural, as I had wanted it to be, my baby would probably have not gone into respiratory depression, which was the reason given for my C-section. At the time, I was young (18) and willing to do whatever the doctors told me to do because I was concerned for my baby and figured they had our best interest at hand. After all of the research I've done, I'm not so sure about that.
And when I figured that out, I sure felt violated. Maybe not in the same way as I felt when I was sexually abused, but I see the comparison.
My grandfather, who sexually abused me, was an authority figure who I trusted and I believed had my best interest at hand and he took that trust and used it against me. In many cases of C-sections in this country, I think doctors and hospitals do the same to their patients, who trust them and believe their best interests are being upheld. Not rape in the sexual sense, but having decisions being made for them about their own bodies, yeah, that's a pretty huge violation.
And I may be an idealist, but as a nursing student who is due to graduate in May, I hope to be a patient advocate, and fight for the rights of my patients to be upheld, and hoping that they won't have to jump through huge hoops in order to deliver in the way they want to. This patient is concerned for herself and her baby. C-section carries enormous risks and she's scared. Saying she can take her "saggy butt" to another hospital is mean, and it's not your job as a nurse to be judgmental of patients.
I agree with some of the other posters, that if delivering at home or another hospital is an option, go for it. There won't be any higher risks there if the hospital she is planning to deliver in doesn't even accommodate emergency C-sections anyway. I live in IL, where that wouldn't be an option for me, though. Nurse-midwives can't do home deliveries here, as is the case with some other states.
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