Re: Pushing Instructions
If they DO NOT have an epidural, i say "do what your body tells you to do. bear down when you need to" and they do what is needed. This is why no epidurals are wonderful!! occasionally, they are freaking out and need guidance, and then i try to calm them down, and encourage them to push/bear down.
If the DO have an epidural-
first of all, i skip the stirrups-they suck. foot pedals. i say "take a deep breath, and bear down into your bottom. when you have to, take a breath and do it again." also, show them where to hold their legs (behind legs or on top of knees) or, if they are on their side, or squatting wiht the bar, etc-it varies depending on where they are laying/sitting). refine instructions based on how they push.
i dont count to ten b/c some ppl can't hold it that long. or can hold it longer. no need to make someone feel bad b/c htey can only hold their breath til 7. plus, hearing 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10! 3 times a contraction, ctx q3min for 3 hours-BORING! and annoying. while she's pushing i'll say "good job, Jane! keep going you're doing great, right into your bottom, a little more ifyou can" etc etc etc just encouragement.
i'll ask her if she thinks she is pushing well, and give her help that she needs.
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