Re: An OB's Birth Plan
The only unfortunate thing is that you found out your OB's beliefs this late in the game.
We could argue all day on the topic of home births vs. hospital, bradley vs. hospital philosophy, vaccinations vs no vaccine ect ect.... we, even as health care professionals, will never agree. I happen share the opinions of your doc from my personal experience as a NICU nurse(home births gone wrong resulting in trached/vent dependent baby, IVH in term infants who did not receive Vit K for example). And I totally understand that for every 1 horrible NICU admit there are 100s of healthy home births/ tubs births/ births unmonitored with no IV, ect, ect that others can attest to. I say to each his own.
It is unfortunate that you are finding this out at 26 weeks. I think that you should let your OB know that you do not share the same "birth plan" and you feel that you cannot continue to see him/her- that this is a deal breaker for you. Make sure you suggest that this letter be given to patients on their FIRST OB visit- after all, this would have saved you alot of trouble and stress!
You say you believe this is a good doc, I'm sure he/her could refer you to someone who shares your same ideas.
Congratulations on your pregnancy!! Please keep us posted!
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