Re: "Natural" birth Originally Posted by nurseglad Just a thought...do women in the US write birth plans? About 80% of the women who deliver at the hospital I work at do..sometimes it looks as though it's a list of commands, but we endeavour to work as closely to the plan as possible. Sometimes though, due to staff shortages we can't always give them what they want i.e an epidural, or even something as basic as a water birth

I've been reading this thread & have found it fascinating! The opinions are really diverse.
As a UK nurse & mother of 4 it's really interesting to see the differences. I had an epidural with no.2 because no.1 had been a horrible experience - POP, Keilland forceps - NOT fun!!
However, the epidural didn't work & I ended up delivering my 9lb 4oz baby with a tank of gas & air instead (was that natural or not ?

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For my other birth plans I just wrote "give me 3 tanks of gas & air & let me get on with it!" & the GREAT & FANTASTIC British midwives I was fortunate enough to have did exactly that. As long as the baby & me were fine they were happy to just provide the support & encouragement I needed to deliver safely. That has left me with only good experiences to relate.
Speaking purely from the mother's side of the fence there is nothing better you can do for your labouring patient than to try & allow them to carry out their plans as far as possible. Whether that be getting them the epidural or getting them the gas & air or getting them nothing.
No mother wants to put her child's life at risk but jumping on them with IV's, epidural requests etc etc if they don't want it can only heighten their stress & increase their chance of needing interventions.
Just take a step back, look at your patient, if she's doing just fine then let her be - she'll soon tell you if she needs something. If things become life-threating, or potentially so, then that's your turn. Until then your role should be supportive & that's the message I'm seeing from the members here who I would prefer to have with me as the professional in the room. I would not want those who want to stick needles in me the minute I walk through the door, or get the anaesthatist into my room before I'd even wramed the sheets or equally those who think because I just wanted 3 tanks of gas & air I'm a weirdo!!
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