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No. 20
from BabyLady
Old Sep 16, 2009, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by J_9! View Post
Apparently we do not have that initiative in my facility, and for that I am very happy. My hospital caters to very low income women and teens. They can't afford to go out and get formula until their WIC appointment.
We don't either. We hand out the formula bags and the bottles that they bring breast milk back in are made my Good Start and has the logo on all of the bottles.

We do not accept breast milk in bags from mothers because of the instance of leakage in both the storage and thawing....they are told this on discharge and provided the bottles for free.

We have so few mothers that breastfeed (sadly...b/c none of the staff encourage it) that the supply is never a problem.
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No. 21
from brillohead
Old Sep 16, 2009, 08:44 AM

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If they (the new moms) aren't willing to fork out $10-$20 for a diaper bag of their own, then why the heck did they have a child? I don't see people saying, "I decided to gestate for 40 weeks and raise a kid for 18+ years just so I could get a cheap diaper bag for free."

Does the hospital send home food for the new moms who are breastfeeding? If not, why should the hospital send home food for bottle-fed babies?

When I had my son, I had already purchased diapers, wipes, clothing, a crib, a breast pump, bottles, a carseat, etc. My home was stocked with the things I would need when I brought my baby home. By saying that the hospital should send home formula for bottle-fed babies, that's like saying the parents who choose to bottle feed are too stupid to know how to properly care for a baby... in which case, why wouldn't you also call social services to have the baby placed in foster care?

If someone really hasn't given a single solitary thought to how they plan to feed their baby after it's born, and if someone really isn't capable of going out and buying bottles and formula if they choose not to breastfeed, then why are we letting them take a defenseless neonate home in the first place?
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No. 22
from J_9!
Old Sep 16, 2009, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by BabyLady View Post
Yes, but you cannot hold all nurses to blame because one nurse refused to believe that you had cancer.

I would have absolutely lost it with that idiot.
I don't hold all nurses to blame. Quite the opposite actually. This is why I feel it is best not to question the patient's decision and not to force breastfeeding. I did breastfeed my first two by the way. I feel that the patient has made a personal decision and we should be supporting that decision whether we agree with it or not.

Where will it stop? Will we stop supporting patients' religious backgrounds in what they can or cannot eat? How their religion effects their continuity of care? No, of course not. So why should we stop supporting and assisting a patient when she decides that she doesn't want to breastfeed? Why not help her if she doesn't have the money to buy the formula when she is discharged?
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No. 23
from dscrn
Old Sep 16, 2009, 08:50 AM

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Actually, my oldest daughter had a baby in Juy...she got a pro breastfeeding bag form the local breastfeeding consortium, with breast pads, some personal care items...even a battery powered breast pump.
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No. 24
from J_9!
Old Sep 16, 2009, 08:50 AM

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Originally Posted by brillohead View Post
If they (the new moms) aren't willing to fork out $10-$20 for a diaper bag of their own, then why the heck did they have a child? I don't see people saying, "I decided to gestate for 40 weeks and raise a kid for 18+ years just so I could get a cheap diaper bag for free."

Does the hospital send home food for the new moms who are breastfeeding? If not, why should the hospital send home food for bottle-fed babies?

When I had my son, I had already purchased diapers, wipes, clothing, a crib, a breast pump, bottles, a carseat, etc. My home was stocked with the things I would need when I brought my baby home. By saying that the hospital should send home formula for bottle-fed babies, that's like saying the parents who choose to bottle feed are too stupid to know how to properly care for a baby... in which case, why wouldn't you also call social services to have the baby placed in foster care?

If someone really hasn't given a single solitary thought to how they plan to feed their baby after it's born, and if someone really isn't capable of going out and buying bottles and formula if they choose not to breastfeed, then why are we letting them take a defenseless neonate home in the first place?
Pregnancy is not always a choice...sometimes it's an accident. Teens get pregnant and don't work, can't purchase the items that you were able to afford. Some gals have no support whatsoever. So, what are we going to do? Boot them out the door with nothing for their babies? Our local churches even make up bags so that these young women can have a blanket to take home...or some clothes to send the babies home.

As I stated, my hospital is located in a very rural part of the deep south. We have some of the poorest of the poor at my facility.
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No. 25
from J_9!
Old Sep 16, 2009, 08:51 AM

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Originally Posted by dscrn View Post
Actually, my oldest daughter had a baby in Juy...she got a pro breastfeeding bag form the local breastfeeding consortium, with breast pads, some personal care items...even a battery powered breast pump.
I wish we were lucky enough to have something like that where I live.
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No. 26
from dscrn
Old Sep 16, 2009, 08:56 AM

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The pump was a very nice surprise-she has an electric pump, but this is a great ite to send home with especially a first timerI tell frieds and family to hold off purchasing an expensive pum, until they know if they will need it. Onceopened, breast pumps cannot be returned to stor, due to board of health rules...
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No. 27
from J_9!
Old Sep 16, 2009, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by dscrn View Post
The pump was a very nice surprise-she has an electric pump, but this is a great ite to send home with especially a first timerI tell frieds and family to hold off purchasing an expensive pum, until they know if they will need it. Onceopened, breast pumps cannot be returned to stor, due to board of health rules...
I may talk to my local heart-to-heart and see if I can get something like this started. It's a great idea, but in the rural south we rely on donations, this may just be a big project for me...but one that everyone will benefit in the end.
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No. 28
from brillohead
Old Sep 16, 2009, 09:08 AM

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Originally Posted by J_9! View Post
Pregnancy is not always a choice...sometimes it's an accident. Teens get pregnant and don't work, can't purchase the items that you were able to afford. Some gals have no support whatsoever. So, what are we going to do? Boot them out the door with nothing for their babies? Our local churches even make up bags so that these young women can have a blanket to take home...or some clothes to send the babies home.

As I stated, my hospital is located in a very rural part of the deep south. We have some of the poorest of the poor at my facility.
Do you not have Social Services? I wouldn't want to send ANY baby home with a parent who doesn't have even the bare minimum of necessities to care for a child -- this would be the same whether the mother was breastfeeding or bottlefeeding. And I would have no qualms calling in Child Protective Services if the mother's not willing to cooperate with getting signed up with social services.
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No. 29
from babyktchr
Old Sep 16, 2009, 09:11 AM

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I would like to have a piece of both worlds. I would like to retain the formula bags for the bottlefeeding moms and then develop a pro breast feeding bag for the moms. I just don't think we should have to be in an all or nothing initiative. Intentionally or unintentionally, someone will be offended. I just think the baby friendly title would be offensive to anyone who chose NOT to breastfeed.

There is no easy answer. While promoting breastfeeding is a great idea, I don't believe it should be forced or guilted into it, nor should anyone feel slighted because they chose not to.
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