Speaking About Nurses Who Moonlight As Dancers

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Blonde bombshell Amy Toliver leads a double life to fulfill an incredible dream. The Phoenix resident sheds her clothes several times each week nightly at "iCandy Burlesque" in Planet Hollywood's Miracle Mile Shops and at the new SHe nightclub in Crystals. By day, she dons scrubs for nursing school to follow in her mother's footsteps to become a trauma emergency room nurse.

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I get what everyone is saying about her degrading herself, BUT!!! We wipe butts for a living! We get thrown up on, spit on, pooped on, and have to take care of peoples private areas! Some people may view what we do as degrading. So yes she grinds on men and WOMEN (OMG, Yes women go to strip clubs too, whhhhaatttt :nailbiting: ) and makes money for it!

What about the women who strip for their boyfriends or non boyfriends, or women who have sex with their boyfriends/ non boyfriends. They arent married to these men. The only difference between a stripper/ prosititute and these women mentioned above is that they are smart enough to get paid for it. Who cares if multiple men see her naked. What if she has had 20 boyfriends in her lifetime that had seen her naked would it be the same??? Alot of the women on here have had lots of boyfriends/ sexual partners I am sure and its kinda like the pot calling the kettle black. The only difference is she is in the public and alot of others are in the private but that does not mean the private peoples Sh!t dont Stink just like hers.

LOL. Sorry for the rant, but people judge and point fingers without fully accessing a situation. It doesnt hurt anyone what she does! This feels like a gay marriage debate lol.

Wow. Step back and breathe, yeah?

I didn't see anyone judging her. I saw many people, myself included, who had doubts as to this woman's ability to achieve her grand goals with her current employment considered. Rail all you want, but many large health corporations are becoming MORE conservative with their hiring policies, not more relaxed as society is.

Regarding all those who keep their business in their bedroom, well, that was smart of them, wasn't it? I think an employer would view a committed couple doing their thang in the privacy of their house skips and bounds different than a woman (or a man, for that matter) bump-n-grinding for a living. If you really think getting freaky with your partner is equivalent to being a dancer or stripper, I don't know what to say.

You offered a false equivalency.

And no matter what anyone may say to me, my vocation to provide care to the ill, elderly, and infirm is never degrading. The fact that they may think it is, says worlds about how they view their commitment to their fellow humans, and their compassion.

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Wow. Step back and breathe, yeah?

I didn't see anyone judging her. I saw many people, myself included, who had doubts as to this woman's ability to achieve her grand goals with her current employment considered. Rail all you want, but many large health corporations are becoming MORE conservative with their hiring policies, not more relaxed as society is.

Regarding all those who keep their business in their bedroom, well, that was smart of them, wasn't it? I think an employer would view a committed couple doing their thang in the privacy of their house skips and bounds different than a woman (or a man, for that matter) bump-n-grinding for a living. If you really think getting freaky with your partner is equivalent to being a dancer or stripper, I don't know what to say.

You offered a false equivalency.

And no matter what anyone may say to me, my vocation to provide care to the ill, elderly, and infirm is never degrading. The fact that they may think it is, says worlds about how they view their commitment to their fellow humans, and their compassion.

Although there were some who had doubts about her abilities to reach her goals others were judging her. I guess my definition of judging may not be the same as yours.

Anyways, The comparision I made was pointed more towards the men or women who go out and have one night stands or have multiple committed boyfriends, ie. boyfriend for 3 months then on to the next one, not the people who are married or have been in a long long term committed relationship. In my opinion, being loose like that in the private is the same as doing it publicly, and like I said just because it is private does not mean that persons **** Dont Stink as bad as the men or women who ho publicly, yes I said ho. :D Lets just keep it real thats what it is, lol. :wideyed:

Thanx for the reply.

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One thing that would worry one is what happens when a former "client" or whatever shows up as an inpatient one day and assumes the nurse in question is no better than she should be and makes lewd demands. Things like a bed bath complete with "happy ending", that sort of thing. Worse if the said nurse had been quiet about her previous (or current for that matter) source of extra income and now the patient either begins to make insulting comments or even goes for extortion.

I got plenty of perves when I took care of adults. And I was never a dancer. And the sad thing is, society would allow extortion in this case? How is the nurse that used to be a dancer any worthier of being extorted than the guy that saw the show? If anything, she should extort him, he was stupid enough to pay for someone to pretend to be interested in him.

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There is a HUGE difference: Those who "ho" in private, are just that, private. As in, the employer will not know. It will not necessarily reflect upon the employer.

A very public dancer/performer/stripper is, well, public, traceable, and will reflect upon the employer. Employers are getting serious about public image as clients become more choosy.

Also, I really don't think a serial monogamous person is equivalent to a public, for-profit performer/dancer/stripper/"ho". One is a preferred style of relationship, and the other is a way to make money.

Nice way of judging people who love and live differently than you. What, because a person chooses to sleep with more than one person a year makes them a "ho", regardless of if they were being paid?

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There is a HUGE difference: Those who "ho" in private, are just that, private. As in, the employer will not know. It will not necessarily reflect upon the employer.

A very public dancer/performer/stripper is, well, public, traceable, and will reflect upon the employer. Employers are getting serious about public image as clients become more choosy.

Also, I really don't think a serial monogamous person is equivalent to a public, for-profit performer/dancer/stripper/"ho". One is a preferred style of relationship, and the other is a way to make money.

Nice way of judging people who love and live differently than you. What, because a person chooses to sleep with more than one person a year makes them a "ho", regardless of if they were being paid?

Lol, you make good points my friend. But my opinion stands. And for the last question my answer is possibly. Everyone has different definitions of what a ho is lol.

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Specializes in PCA, HHA.

I personally have done burlesque shows and even done web cam modeling and I love doing it but I do agree that I don't want all the world to know about what I do...in the cases of employers or employees.

but I do have to use social media to a degree to promote doing these kinds of things. Its just how you get a crowd to show up at an event. But I really to be as careful as I possibly can about what I publicly post to the internet and who can see what I post and how can not. I know that even if I am only working as HHA right now I am intending on going and doing CNA training as well as I am in school for Veterinary Technician training which is still nursing and still public work.

I do think some states such as CA have become a heck of a lot more flexible about how they personally view things of an "adult" or more alternative nature. And yes I have always been someone that frankly views being more sexually open as not a bad thing. In fact I think the more adults treat sex like sex. The better sexual education get promoted by young adults and teenagers. And sex education really I feel needs to be vamped up and not so sugar coded as it is now.

I still meet people that are in their late 20's to early 30's that I swear don't get the value of using a condom, or going and getting tested.

I think a lot of people on here would agree that, what you do i your off time as long as you are not breaking any laws should be your own.

But I also do know that the corporate business world does look at things in certain ways for sure. Which is why for me when I say that I exist as a performer, I make sure that my material and what I put out to the world is there but its private. Cause frankly just like talking about your personal life, which frankly what you do as stripper, web cam model, burlesque dancer...is YOUR PRIVATE LIFE. And it just needs to be kept out of the work place.

Cause its the polite, respectful and more importantly PROFESSIONAL thing to do hell if I worked as Zoo Keeper that would remain true in my mind.

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