re: Nurse Stereotypes and the White Cap...
What's funny is that I initially went into nursing school, I believe, because I was this self-less, people-pushover who endlessly was willing to give everything I had for everyone else. I let people walk all over me like a rug, didn't know what to do about it, and then figured that nursing would be a perfect career choice for me because I knew how to "be an angel." Thanks to the media AND the nurse recruiters who try to persuade you to be in their programs, internships, etc.
But thankfully I did toughen up, and I'm not as easy to let people walk all over me like a rug. I know what I need to do for myself before I can give to others, and how to take care of myself before I can take care of others. It worried me that I no longer would fit the expected "role" of the nurse that our society cracks it up to be. However, I think I'm realizing that through these posts that I still have the right personality to be a nurse. Just because I've grown up and learned to be a little more assertive does not mean I'm not a compassionate or empathetic person who will take care of my patients.
This might go a little off topic...but I want to add one more thing. Even for as immature I was when I initially started my 4-year program, I never went into nursing school because it was a "calling" or "an act of duty." I wonder if this sometimes goes hand-in-hand with the portrayal of a nurse being some kind of an angel. People would try to rationalize that I did (ha! go figure), but I simply went into the profession because I want to help other people, and have an appreciation for health and medicine.
Erika
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