Re: ICU stay before death common in the U.S.
There is a difference between prolonging a death and saving a life.
Maria Shriver/Arnold Schwarzenegger's mother, at age 88, spent several days in ICU before she died. Was this the best use of healthcare dollars? The end result was the same-she died. Why did they not transfer her to Hospice?
Originally Posted by elkpark
So do many, many other people -- why single her and her family out?
Because Arnold is all about budget cuts, and eliminating waste in healthcare. When his family became involved in a health care crisis, he could have been a model as to why ICU is not an appropriate place for a dying 87 year old woman. He could have to be the poster boy on appropriate care when elders die.
When it became obvious that care on my 47 yo husband was futile, I asked that he be taken off the vent. At that point, no one had even mentioned DNR or that he was dying. I thought about what it would take to keep him alive-PEG'd, trached etc, and realized how much it would cost as well as the impact on our family (our kids were 9 and 10). And I knew the end result was that he would still die an early death.
We need to get America talking about death or else the healthcare system is going to go bankrupt paying to save all us babyboomers with our no hold barred, keep 'em alive no matter the cost attitude.
Unfortunately, most of America has become entranced with celebrities and stars. People know more about what is going on with Jon and Kate than they do their own extended families. It is going to take celebrities to bring the issue of dying out into the open. Arnold had a chance to do this.
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