How to NOT interview for your RN/LPN job! - page 6
I just got finished with round 3 of the most frustrating interviews! I was an LPN for 15 years before I went back to school for my RN. I am currently in training for management so I have been... Read More
Feb 20, '12They grab that pack of marlboros because you were to busy in the clouds thanking about your personal perfection to do any smoking cessation teaching!!! Lol
i never said don't wear dress clothes.
I never said wear jeans.
I will say that we could use a lot less burned out pageant runner ups, and a few more good nurses!!! But good help is hard to find, especially with such rigidity, i can't believe this is so hard for educated people to understand??!!!!
Hire who you want in the end, the advice was to read between the lines and take time to get to know your applicant, don't judge the book by it's cover, but you know what, you who feel like running a fashion show for your new slot, go right ahead, i'm running with a mute point by now!!!!
Common' shallow people of the world unite!!!!!!
At least you will have pretty people to look at!!!! Nevermind that bell, probably a false alarm, you need more powder and lipstick girl!!!!!
Feb 20, '12Some people are confusing vanity and professionalism. They are not even close to the same thing.
Feb 20, '12Quote from Rick68flAnd please do pay homage to your culture! Or adopt one! I encourage all the guys to wear leiderhosen or a kilt to your interview even if your ancestors do not hail from Bavaria or Scotland. I plan to wear my uncle's mariachi hat to make a particularly memorable impression! Yes I'm a girl but hey I don't want to ruin my chances by appearing to adhere to ridiculous gender-based stereotypes!Those of you that were shocked and offended by the OP's post can do whatever you want. Actually, I encourage you to wear your most bizarre outfit to the interview. Do your best to look different from every other applicant. Body glitter would be an especially nice touch.
Feb 20, '12Quote from purple_scrubsthat was a whole lot nicer than what i was going to say. thanks.some people are confusing vanity and professionalism. they are not even close to the same thing.
Feb 20, '12it is too bad that this threadhas reduced its self to insults. i believe the op was making light of some the intervieweesshe as meet over years. still i never read where not wearing makeup was sureway of losing a job; just do not overdo it. one should not wear jeans of aninterview, in these time there are many other people who willing to put the effortto wear dress attire. this is important when an employer has to choose betweentwo cadets who are just as qualified. peoplewell judge you upon the way one looks, just as he or she will judge you on oneresume, so it is best to put your best foot forward. all these people have piercing and tattoos (all considered good people) who would you want to hire to be a nurse. just random pictures
Feb 25, '12Thanks for the tips! I knew most of these, but I had to learn the rest!
I am surprised by the people who attack the OP and think these are not important, and these don't matter, but compassion and good patient care matter. How in the world is the interviewer supposed to examine somebody's nursing skills on the interview and as the first impression? lol. If you ask, everybody will say they are darn good at what they're doing.
People who attacked the OP, I hope you attend the same interviews I will attend to compete for the position I want. I sure would love to have you as rivals in job market.
Feb 26, '12Quote from dixieredheadhiring is an opinionated thing. first you have to realize that it is not a "fair" thing.
you will be judged. that is what the hiring process is all about. gone are the days when you could show up with an unblemished license and no criminal record and get hired. it's a buyer's market.
the buyer (hirer) has her/his choice of many qualified applicants. you should show up looking neat, clean, presentable, and not looking like you are a circus freak who just crawled out of bed.
if you don't like it, too bad. as i said, it's a buyers market. you are the seller. you have to make the package resemble what the buyer needs and wants. period.
for me it's all of those things mentioned and shoes. if i see someone come in to interview with nasty shoes it shows a clear lack of attention to detail. not interested, thanks.i'm reading through your comment and nodding in agreement with all your fine points, until the end. the fact that you would disqualify someone because they have 'nasty' shoes because it show's a lack of attention to detail, hmmm... it's absolutism like that that has me torn between the uber-professionals and those who would make an einstein analogy and allowance about messy hair or some-such foible regarding the interview process. the fact that we're not mind readers and subject to the subjective criteria of each interviewers standards makes navigating these waters even more treacherous in these 'buyer-market' times. i understand that we're supposed to put our best foot forward during an interview but why, in this economy and during these times, does it always seem that we're all just supposed to be 'happy' that we have a j.o.b.??? i still believe it's just as important for the employer to be a good match/right mix for the prospective employee. interviewing should still be a two way street, imo.
Feb 27, '12Call me odd, but I enjoy interviews. Not to toot my own horn, but I think I interview quite well I think thatshould include a discussion about how to interview..some people may not know exactly how to do so. And also how to put together a resume!
Feb 28, '12Boston is climbing down off his soap box now to add his favorite tips to the bucket now that he has had his little tantrum. Boston totally understands that everyone is entitled to their own opinion-just like a certain body part, and that opinions are sometimes like that part, -that is, . . . when they are aired, people get offended. I am SO GLAD everyone doesn't agree with me on looking AT THE PERSON, and digging if you find something unpleasant, or not P.C. to get to a better understanding of the whole person in front of you. That DIFFERENCE WE SHARE, is what makes systems work, discussion, challenge, and asking questions helps us understand each other a little better.
Okay here goes, you might be surprised.
1. Don't sit down until I have asked you to do so. I have always practiced this in interviews, and expect it back.
2. Don't put anything on my desk, it is my desk, and though you may feel it is common ground, I earned it.
3. Don't finish my sentences, I know you are nervous, but I also know this irritates me thoroughly, and you will continue this after I hire you. Also, don't interupt me, answer my phone while I am making copies of your license-I do have voicemail.
4. I have just interviewed 4 potential people "Dressed really nice" with "no denim" and "natural hair color and good teeth" what makes you more valuable to me as a single mom, who I know will call in with sick kids, and bleach blonde hair (although very well kept), and because of her religion, a denim skirt (very common in this faith group). Oh, I should also add that this religious group doesn't believe in wearing make-up! Oh com'on you know I had to poke a lil' fun at the OP!
5. Give me real examples of real times, you did actual things. Don't just tell me work well under pressure, and stressful situations, because (A.) I am going to ask you to give me an example, and (B.) I am going to evaluate your new answer.
6. When I ask you to tell me who you are, do it in one minute or less with as little hesitation as possible. You should know yourself fairly well. What I want to know is, Why are you here? Strengths/Weaknesses? Past experiences? Basic Learning skills? Why I should hire you?
7. If you left your last job because your boss was a jerk after a month, I am going to assume you will do the same here, at least humor me and tell me you married a coach or pastor, and you move a lot which perfectly explains how and why you kept no post longer than 3 months in 4 years.
8. Body Odor is NO NO and you will have a quickly ending interview.
9. Body Odor to me is any scent I deem as Overwhelming, Did you bath in that stuff, or not bath in 4 days?, both problems!
10. If an Odor you have bothers me, it will make my patients sick, and thats one of the quickest ways to get a patient to compain. I have a NO PERFUME, COLOGNE policy.
11. Don't ask me more questions than I am asking you, it shows me a lack of respect for authority.
12. ALWAYS HAVE A RESUME, COVER LETTER, with your application, EVEN CNA/ASSIST POSITIONS!!!!!!!!!
13. A portfolio of your time spent in nursing is a sure fire way to get in the head of the line, it shows me you really care about what you have done, and what you will do. Making things MATTER to me is a plus.
14. Nurses that are active members in extracurricular activites are ALWAYS well rounded, sharp, caring nurses. So the fact that volunteer at free clinic, or are in the nat. or St. Nursing Associations matter to me.
15. If you are LATE, NO INTERVIEW and NO EXCUSES!!!!!!!!!! Unless you phoned me in a reasonable manner before.
Thanks for dropping by, and Thank each of you for what you do everyday to keep this Profession Professional!!!!!
Kyle RNLast edit by BostonTerrierLoverRN on Feb 28, '12 : Reason: grammatical errors while really sleepy!!!
Feb 28, '12By the way, did anyone watch "The Pursuit of Happiness" with Will Smith (It was an Assignment from Page 3)!!!!
Not a movie critic, but while not the greatest cinematic experience, IT WILL BRIGHTEN YOUR DAY AND OUTLOOK!!!!
Mar 3, '12Quote from gswiftythank you for the nice words. maybe i didn't exactly say what i meant. i didn't mean ugly shoes, or shoes that didn't match the outfit, or were even weather appropriate. in fact the shoes i was talking about probably wouldn't even be worn to an interview at all.i'm reading through your comment and nodding in agreement with all your fine points, until the end. the fact that you would disqualify someone because they have 'nasty' shoes because it show's a lack of attention to detail, hmmm... it's absolutism like that that has me torn between the uber-professionals and those who would make an einstein analogy and allowance about messy hair or some-such foible regarding the interview process. the fact that we're not mind readers and subject to the subjective criteria of each interviewers standards makes navigating these waters even more treacherous in these 'buyer-market' times. i understand that we're supposed to put our best foot forward during an interview but why, in this economy and during these times, does it always seem that we're all just supposed to be 'happy' that we have a j.o.b.??? i still believe it's just as important for the employer to be a good match/right mix for the prospective employee. interviewing should still be a two way street, imo.
i was talking about when i see nurses in tennis shoes with red mud (is my southern showing?) caked up on them. still makes me crings.