Re: How about your favorite Old Wives Tales related to health? Originally Posted by maliat This is a Japanese thing, though I don't think anyone does this anymore. When I was born, once she got home with me, my Mom couldn't go out with me for a whole month. Don't know why. But my mom still freaks out sometime when she sees a newborn out and about.
Malia
It's called 'sato-gaeri' /'return to ones hometown'. A relatively modern 'tradition', mothers return to their family home for a month to: a) recover from the labour of childbirth; b) learn how to become mothers from their own mother; and c) give the baby time to grow a little before exposing them to the world. Actually, it's a very nice concept and helps relieve a lot of the stress first-time mothers may experience, as well as provide them with a helper on hand (the materal grandmother) to give them time to rest.
My wife did it both times (the last time being just a few months ago). I was left alone which didn't help the bonding process with the father, but that rather emphasises the paternal role in the Japanese family.
Malia, 'sato-gaeri' is still very, very common in Japan, certainly up in Tohoku.
My peeve with the old wives' tales about childrearing is the snippet requiring parents to wash the baby's hair first during bathing.
P.S. First post here! Yoroshiku ne.
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