nursing school with a family... part time second degree?

I posted something similar in the local forum, but I thought I'd ask a the general question... What would you all suggest in this situation? I'll be completing my BA this winter and I'd like to go on and take some preequisites and then try for nursing school, but I have a young child who I'm at home with right now (my classes are online) and my husband is just finishing up his last year of vet school, so I'm not sure how much flexability he'll have. We also want a couple more kids and we want to avoid using child care.

I know there are a couple accelerated second degree programs, but they seem intense to complete with young kids. One option would be to go to a community college and do a program there part-time, but then I would have an RN and BA, but no BSN, and I hope to eventually get an MSN... Any ideas?