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No. 240
from avalon1946
Old Aug 11, 2007, 02:13 PM

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I am retired after 20 yrs and its the best thing i did. i do miss the patients and some of the co workers. they don't bond with each other. they like to snitch. i finally had enough so i left. i have been a nurse for over 30 yrs, working off and on until i stayed with this job for 20 yrs. nurses need to be sensitive not only to the pt's but also the staff. there doesn't seem to be any careing., and now that im gone i hear from no one. its like i never existed to them. i didn't think they would treat me like this. i was always there for them helping them, etc.
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No. 241
from dijmart
Old Aug 14, 2007, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by avalon1946 View Post
nurses need to be sensitive not only to the pt's but also the staff. there doesn't seem to be any careing., and now that im gone i hear from no one. its like i never existed to them. i didn't think they would treat me like this. i was always there for them helping them, etc.
I'm sorry that the staff you worked w/ is treating you this way. I know that when I've left jobs in the past I had to be the one to go visit, call, ect. if I wanted to see my old co-workers. I guess the quote "out of sight, out of mind" comes into play unfortunately. Eventually, I'd get sick of it and I'd stop calling or going to see them and it didn't seem to matter (to them)......and I've never heard from them again.
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No. 242
from suanna
Old Aug 15, 2007, 02:57 AM

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If one of my kids wanted to become a nurse I would advise them to have thier head examined. 20 years ago-maybe the health care system had a bit more money to throw around. In todays world nurses are becoming an expensive comodity that hospitals are looking to cut back on. That means more patients, less benifits, and grudgingly little respect. Job security is there but the same could be said for slavery. If I did't have 5 years till retirement I'd rather drive a truck. As a matter of fact my son-in-law drives a truck- he has better insurance, better 401K match, almost my wages, and has never had someone punch him, spit on him, poop for him to clean it up, or had to lift more than 30lbs. I wonder if the bag boy at my local grocer realizes I envy his job?
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No. 243
from fortman
Old Aug 15, 2007, 06:36 AM
Updated Aug 15, 2007 at 06:39 AM by fortman

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Sure I'd recommend nursing as a good career move. I've been a RN for many years now and unlike many of the responders that are very dissatisfied with their careers and agree with you about not making a career recommendation, I love nursing. I wouldn't enjoy all the nasty, gross substances they report being exposed to, the back breaking labor, long hours, blah, blah, blah. I've never worked in a hospital and probably never would. I've never started an IV or had to deal with blood. Those nurses sound like they hate their jobs and so would I. The key is to stick to a specialty where you are treated with respect and not treated like a slave. I've primarily worked in psych the majority of my career and have loved most every minute of it. If teaching a group on meds, playing some cards, doing a bit of charting, meeting with a patient's family to discuss discharge plans, shooting a few games of pool, and doing some more charting sounds like an awesome way to spend 8 hours making a living, you understand why I love it!
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No. 244
from dijmart
Old Aug 15, 2007, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by fortman View Post
Sure I'd recommend nursing as a good career move. I've been a RN for many years now and unlike many of the responders that are very dissatisfied with their careers and agree with you about not making a career recommendation, I love nursing. I wouldn't enjoy all the nasty, gross substances they report being exposed to, the back breaking labor, long hours, blah, blah, blah. I've never worked in a hospital and probably never would. I've never started an IV or had to deal with blood. Those nurses sound like they hate their jobs and so would I. The key is to stick to a specialty where you are treated with respect and not treated like a slave. I've primarily worked in psych the majority of my career and have loved most every minute of it. If teaching a group on meds, playing some cards, doing a bit of charting, meeting with a patient's family to discuss discharge plans, shooting a few games of pool, and doing some more charting sounds like an awesome way to spend 8 hours making a living, you understand why I love it!
Now that's what I'm talkin' about....LOL.
I start my psych job on Monday.....woooohooooo!
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No. 245
Old Aug 16, 2007, 01:48 AM

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Originally Posted by fortman View Post
Sure I'd recommend nursing as a good career move. I've been a RN for many years now and unlike many of the responders that are very dissatisfied with their careers and agree with you about not making a career recommendation, I love nursing. I wouldn't enjoy all the nasty, gross substances they report being exposed to, the back breaking labor, long hours, blah, blah, blah. I've never worked in a hospital and probably never would. I've never started an IV or had to deal with blood. Those nurses sound like they hate their jobs and so would I. The key is to stick to a specialty where you are treated with respect and not treated like a slave. I've primarily worked in psych the majority of my career and have loved most every minute of it. If teaching a group on meds, playing some cards, doing a bit of charting, meeting with a patient's family to discuss discharge plans, shooting a few games of pool, and doing some more charting sounds like an awesome way to spend 8 hours making a living, you understand why I love it!
Hey fortman, what kind of psych nursing are you in? Sounds like a residential facility of some kind?
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No. 246
from shmoofins
Old Sep 07, 2007, 04:34 PM

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I wouldn't recommend it. It's awful (to me, anyway). I don't feel like it's a good fit for me. Even in school I felt this way but I stayed with it partly because my family pressured me to ("you'll have such a good job when you get out!") and partly because I wasn't sure what else I wanted to do. Now that I'm out of school I really wish I would have just changed my major to something I liked. I've only been out of school and working for a few months (although I externed in school so I knew I didn't like floor nursing, but decided to do it anyway...thought the floor I got hired on wouldn't be as bad...wrong!) and already I want to go back to college and do something else! I know there are lots of different options in nursing but without the experience it's harder to get those nice office jobs and things like that.

I really want out, I'm just sick of this whole profession already. Now I'm looking for a new job and I hope I can find something that, if I don't like it, at least maybe I won't hate it. I would love to go back to school for something different where I don't have to deal with sick people/confused people/bodily fluids/huge liability/crazy stressful shifts where I hardly get to sit down at all, etc. I'm not totally ruling out the possibility that I can still find something I like within nursing, but I'd still like to get out of it asap. I just feel like it's not me, like it doesn't fit my personality or something.
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No. 247
from JenM
Old Sep 07, 2007, 06:09 PM

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I don't have the stamina to go through the entire 25 pages. But it makes me sick to hear people say that nursing is a terrible career! I am only a student. But here's what I want to say. What did you expect nursing to be? Some glamourous job where you just "save the day" all of the time? Of course you're going to be cleaning up feces and mucous and vomit and blood. Of course you're going to be giving enemas and changing ostomy bags. Yes doctors will yell at you. Patient may scream at you and family members of those patients may do the same. The paperwork is endless. You don't always get off of your shift on time.

BUT...

If it means that you save one patient from suicide, or teach one patient how to lower their blood sugars or if you help one person feel better about themselves by just brushing their hair... isn't it all worth it?

Isn't that why we are here; to help in any way we can?

If you aren't ready to be super stressed for the rest of your life, than maybe this isn't the career path for you!
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No. 248
from Ayvah
Old Sep 07, 2007, 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by JenM View Post
I don't have the stamina to go through the entire 25 pages. But it makes me sick to hear people say that nursing is a terrible career! I am only a student. But here's what I want to say. What did you expect nursing to be? Some glamourous job where you just "save the day" all of the time? Of course you're going to be cleaning up feces and mucous and vomit and blood. Of course you're going to be giving enemas and changing ostomy bags. Yes doctors will yell at you. Patient may scream at you and family members of those patients may do the same. The paperwork is endless. You don't always get off of your shift on time.

BUT...

If it means that you save one patient from suicide, or teach one patient how to lower their blood sugars or if you help one person feel better about themselves by just brushing their hair... isn't it all worth it?

Isn't that why we are here; to help in any way we can?

I'd suggest you read the thread then before responding in this manner. Your thoughts have already been responded to:

Originally Posted by mchrisrn
Just a few thoughts from an old "bedside nurse"...we're not complaining about cleaning poop and vomit..we're complaining b/c we CANT do it soon enough and patients have to wait too long!!....we're not complaining that its hard to turn and move people and get them to the chair when theyre 300 pounds and over...but that there's NOT ENOUGH OF US TO DO IT safely for the patients OR the staff....and many of us wanted to help people but at the end of the day, we go home only thinking of all the ones needs we COULNDT attend to b/c there wasnt time...showering, bathing, brushing teeth, take a back seat to people passing out, having chest pain, arrythmias, low bp's , SOB etc. But were complaining b/c we WANT to help people, we WANT to do it right, we KNOW what needs to be done, we would want it done for us and our families, BUT WE CANT help the people!!!..
Most nurses are good, hardworking people. But many nurse's work conditions are dangerous for both the nurse and the patient. Work conditions that negatively affect the health and well-being of the staff as well as the patients wouldn't upset you too?


If you aren't ready to be super stressed for the rest of your life, than maybe this isn't the career path for you!
Sarcasm?
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No. 249
Old Sep 08, 2007, 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by JenM View Post
I don't have the stamina to go through the entire 25 pages. But it makes me sick to hear people say that nursing is a terrible career! I am only a student. But here's what I want to say. What did you expect nursing to be? Some glamourous job where you just "save the day" all of the time? Of course you're going to be cleaning up feces and mucous and vomit and blood. Of course you're going to be giving enemas and changing ostomy bags. Yes doctors will yell at you. Patient may scream at you and family members of those patients may do the same. The paperwork is endless. You don't always get off of your shift on time.

BUT...

If it means that you save one patient from suicide, or teach one patient how to lower their blood sugars or if you help one person feel better about themselves by just brushing their hair... isn't it all worth it?

Isn't that why we are here; to help in any way we can?

If you aren't ready to be super stressed for the rest of your life, than maybe this isn't the career path for you!

I was reading this...........student. You have no idea of what nursing really entails until you are actually a nurse.......I feel very sorry for youwhen you do become a nurse and come here to vent. All I have to say is........when you become a nurse........you will see. Nurses make alot of sacrifices..and we often pay the costs. When you cant be with your family cause you are too tired or because you are working late......or when you are exhausted or caring for insane numbers of unstable patients....you know what, never mind. You will get it.....
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