Maybe I can get some perspectives from you all. Here is the story: I have a really good job at a smaller community hospital outside of Dallas Texas. I love my co-workers and I am respected among my peers. The pay is ok. I am a mom of a school age daughter (5th grade) and have a supportive husband. I have no family in this area, they live in Europe. Recently I had an amazing job offer from Sharp hospital in San Diego. Great position, great pay. I haven't accepted yet because I am torn. Do I move my whole family out of this small Texas town that we are so comfortable in, or do I take a leap of faith and take the job in San Diego to advance my career? If I was a single female, the choice would be simple. But is my career worth changing my whole daughter's world and everything she has ever known? I just don't want to be selfish. My husband's career is very flexible and he said that he will support me what ever decision I make for us. How would you choose?