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The Patient I Failed - page 7

She knew what she wanted. She'd watched her husband of 52 years die on a vent, and followed his wishes to remain a full code. But she knew that was not what she wanted for herself. So, she... Read More

  1. Visit  nurseatheart66 profile page
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    Epiphany..............The respect and compassion you gave her while she was in your care is what makes you the great nurse that you are. There is no failure in that.
  2. Visit  RNontheroad profile page
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    A try heart-wrenching story that so many of us have had to witness.

    Thank you for having the voice to say so eloquently what we would have a hard time putting into words. You are truly a gifted writer and a compassionate and caring nurse.
    nerdtonurse? likes this.
  3. Visit  RNAnnjeh profile page
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    Oh my god....

    So beautifully written I cried.

    I really don't know what to say, except Thank You....for sharing that story.
    nerdtonurse? likes this.
  4. Visit  Pattyo profile page
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    While she did not have the DNR she wanted, I believe in her dying days she knew that there was a nurse caring for her with love and compassion. You did what you could do, and that was a lot. Thank you for expressing so eloquently a pain that many of us have experienced and carry with us.
    DizzyLizzyNurse and nerdtonurse? like this.
  5. Visit  vd07023 profile page
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    Thank you so much for sharing. I hope the precious lady is resting in peace. You did your part so please dont be sorry. Hopefully this will be an eye opener for some people in the medical profession who wishes to impose these modern day technologies on people without thinking twice. God bless you.
    nerdtonurse? likes this.
  6. Visit  greenergrass profile page
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    Of course this was the winning article a touching story, eloquently written! Fabulous!

    A true representation of the humanity & inhumanity in healthcare today.

    Thank you & Congratulations!
    nerdtonurse? likes this.
  7. Visit  cancergirl24 profile page
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    Doesn't a Living Will take presedence over what the "child" wants for her mother? I am nothing less than apalled. What a sad story
    pyriticsilence and nerdtonurse? like this.
  8. Visit  sanddy profile page
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    thanks alot
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  9. Visit  mandykal profile page
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    This is a story that belongs into the "chicken soup for the soul."

    I once took report from a nurse who told me when she informed the Doc on the clients age (95), The Doc told her "I stop thinking about age long time ago." I told this nurse that "sometimes it's beyond our control."

    The family (POA) wanted aggressive treatment....
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  10. Visit  vintagestudent profile page
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    Thank you, nerdtonurse. Very eloquently said through the written word what many of us will see with our own eyes and quietly suffer through. May God help these dear patients whose wishes are trampled on.
    nerdtonurse? likes this.
  11. Visit  celclt profile page
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    so welll thought out and straight from your heart- her dying was not in vain now- if we each can help one patient with the same kindness
    I am updating my living will
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  12. Visit  MMARN profile page
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    Absolutely broke my heart. Thank you for writing it and being so wonderfully caring. *hugs*
    nerdtonurse? likes this.
  13. Visit  jekjek14 profile page
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    I was so touched by your story!
    You didn't fail her at all, it was the dtr and the dr who refused to follow the pt's wishes. At least you understand what she is going through & she can feel that.
    God Bless your heart! :redpinkhe
    nerdtonurse? likes this.


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