Dear British "Hoaxed" Nurse:

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Dearest British "Hoaxed" Nurse (Nurse Saldanha):

As an American Nurse I know our scope may be different, but we are both "nurses" none-the-less. There is more that is in-common, than is different. We both have strengths and weaknesses. We both aim to serve societies ills to the best of our ability, and ease pain and suffering from the lowest of the low, to the top of the elite.

We give nonjudgmental holistic care, and even though we may fuss and whine about our job in private amongst our peers, we love our profession! And, our patients would never be able to guess our bad days because we are also professionals at masking pain, worry, anxiety, and depression as we go through our day.

You know as well as I, there's never enough hours in that day! I'm so sorry your no longer here with us, but you will never be forgotten. Your death was not in-vain. I pledge to pay closer attention to my staff colleagues, and their issues-whether new or current, or something they've been struggling with- and still serve at the bedside, clinic, or even at the Midlevel position.

I am so sorry such a thoughtless act of treachery took you from the world for a "laugh" at the most. I share in the millions mourning your death, and I hold no judgement for you. You, as we're programmed to do, put your self at the bottom of the issue- even as "disposable," as the problem you didn't asked for- seemed bigger than yourself.

I'm so sorry you are gone(taken from your family and "us"), but as long as we arm ourselves with knowledge that our whole life can change in a split moment, and that there are those out there that obviously don't respect the intensity of our pressures: You did not die in vain.

You will ever be present in our heart as a martyr for the truth of the rigors of our profession, and the Nursing Profession feels and mourns your unfair and untimely loss!

We hear in the News you were a trustworthy, dedicated, compassionate, and knowlegable colleage to have. That's the highest praise a Nurse could hope for-You Will be Missed!

In never-ending love,

Boston, and:

Your Brothers and Sisters of the International Nursing Profession!

May You Rest in Eternal Peace!!!!!!!

Please add your Condolences or Respects if you wish.

I guess I don't understand why she felt the need to harm herself.

According to reports that I have read, all she did was TRANSFER the call- she herself was not the one who released the personal and private information about the Duchess.

However, I feel that she was wrong. She did not properly screen the call, she did not do anything to protect the privacy of the patient, and she should have, at the very least have been fired for this. Had this happened here in the US, she could have easily also lost her license. Don't we all remember what happened a few years ago when Britney Spears was in the hospital?

Why are we not hearing about the nurse who actually released the private information and answered the questions of the DJ? We haven't heard a word about her at all. Is she fired? Did she have repercussions? Why did she also not screen the phone call?

I also feel there was something going on with this woman. She was not right to begin with, and I feel that if investigations were completed further, we would find a long history of instability and mental illness.

Specializes in Adult/Ped Emergency and Trauma.

I guess just looking at the situation, no matter "what" ultimately caused her to do what she did- there are now more children in the world without a mother, and the loss of the young lady no matter what the reason- it took a life. I'm not "blaming" anyone. Just sad that a life was lost, and that I will do my best to be alert to the needs of those around me. The gravity of knowing you never really know if you'll see a person tomorrow. And, to treasure everyday as a gift.

Dearest British "Hoaxed" Nurse (Nurse Saldanha):As an American Nurse I know our scope may be different, but we are both "nurses" none-the-less. There is more that is in-common, than is different. We both have strengths and weaknesses. We both aim to serve societies ills to the best of our ability, and ease pain and suffering from the lowest of the low, to the top of the elite. We give nonjudgmental holistic care, and even though we may fuss and whine about our job in private amongst our peers, we love our profession! And, our patients would never be able to guess our bad days because we are also professionals at masking pain, worry, anxiety, and depression as we go through our day. You know as well as I, there's never enough hours in that day! I'm so sorry your no longer here with us, but you will never be forgotten. Your death was not in-vain. I pledge to pay closer attention to my staff colleagues, and their issues-whether new or current, or something they've been struggling with- and still serve at the bedside, clinic, or even at the Midlevel position. I am so sorry such a thoughtless act of treachery took you from the world for a "laugh" at the most. I share in the millions mourning your death, and I hold no judgement for you. You, as we're programmed to do, put your self at the bottom of the issue- even as "disposable," as the problem you didn't asked for- seemed bigger than yourself. I'm so sorry you are gone(taken from your family and "us"), but as long as we arm ourselves with knowledge that our whole life can change in a split moment, and that there are those out there that obviously don't respect the intensity of our pressures: You did not die in vain. You will ever be present in our heart as a martyr for the truth of the rigors of our profession, and the Nursing Profession feels and mourns your unfair and untimely loss! We hear in the News you were a trustworthy, dedicated, compassionate, and knowlegable colleage to have. That's the highest praise a Nurse could hope for-You Will be Missed! In never-ending love,Boston, and:Your Brothers and Sisters of the International Nursing Profession!May You Rest in Eternal Peace!!!!!!!Please add your Condolences or Respects if you wish.
Didn't one of the nurses violate the hipaa act when giving info over the phone?
Didn't one of the nurses violate the hipaa act when giving info over the phone?

Considering HIPAA is a U.S. law, and this didn't happen in the U.S., no.

Specializes in Adult/Ped Emergency and Trauma.

Okay, bout' time for some humor, was helpful and nice right about now, lol, ice breaker:)

(In a time it feels like the world is falling apart:()

If they want it, we can pack it and ship it across the "pond." There is plenty hipaa to go around the world 3 times here, Lol! But, if Pres. Obama calls me next week now- I'm moving to South America:)

Specializes in Adult/Ped Emergency and Trauma.

I would like to thank Everyone who participated, posted, contributed, or even just gave a silent prayer or thought to the surviving families of the late Nurse Saldanha of the United Kingdom, and the horrible tragedy of Sandy Hook Elementary School inn Newtown, CT as the losses this Holiday Season- whatever their or our faith have been devastating, and as small as my prayer seems- you all have it this Holiday Season.

Call and check on that friend or family member you haven't heard from in a while, take a moment to lift someone spirits- even if yours are low, and don't miss one irreplaceable moment with your loved ones this season.

Thanks for your excellent insights, words of kindness and support to the affected survivors, and for the awesome community each and everyone of you, moderators and members alike promote here. I would be honored to serve among any of you!

Specializes in Adult/Ped Emergency and Trauma.

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