Bullying in the Workplace

You have heard it said that "Nurses eat their young", and you may actually have been on the receiving end of that. How can you respond if you are bullied at work? How do you know if you are bullied? How do you know if you ARE the bully? Nurses Announcements Archive Article

October is National Bullying Awareness Month. Bullying can occur in places other than on the schoolyard or in the school hallways. Bullying in the workplace is a very real occurrence that happens on a daily basis. Nurses can be victims of a bully in several ways: horizontal (from upper level management - charge nurse, supervisor, manager, etc), vertical (nurse to nurse), or even from patients. This article will focus on bullying from coworkers.

I was caring for my 16 month old patient who had a drain from her skull as a result of neurosurgery the day before. The surgeon had come in to remove her drain and she was having a scant amount of drainage from her site. The father wanted to hold his daughter, so I gently placed some gauze on her site and taped the gauze into place. At this point, the charge nurse walked in and became verbally aggressive in saying that the surgeon would not want gauze placed on the site, and then began to criticize other aspects of my care for this patient - including the temperature! I was taking a temp with the manual temp instead of the monitors - I had my reasons! The father immediately lost all trust in me caring for his daughter. I had not done anything wrong in my care for this patient, and I had already talked with the surgeon outside of the room and he said I could put gauze on her if she was draining some.

This is an example of nurse bullying. The Department of Labor (DOL) identifies bullying as a behavior that creates defenselessness or demoralizes the victim's right to dignity in the workplace (2006). Furthermore, bullying involves verbal abuse, humiliating or intimidating behaviors, threats, or behavior that interferes with the job performance (Center for American Nurses, 2007). Murray (2009) cites ten tell-tale signs of workplace bullying. Included in these 10 signs are: the inability to please a supervisor, undermining of an employee who is trying to do their job, accusations of incompetence of a previously proved area of excellence, yelling or screaming at others in order to make them look bad, degradation of the employee in front of others, and inability to get help despite requests by the victim for interventions, thus leaving the nurse to be filled with dread and stress.

The effects of bullying in the workplace should not be taken lightly. Bullying has become an increasing factor of job dissatisfaction, work related injuries, absences from work, decreased productivity, AND has been found to cost employers over $4 BILLION dollars yearly (Murray, 2008)! Workers who have witnessed the effects of bullying - or have been a victim their self - can attest to the frustration and even anger that can arise after falling prey to the bully or the "minions" who are in cahoots with the bully.

What to do? I can tell you what I did, and the bullying stopped (for the most part) for me. I say "for the most part" because after this charge nurse was given the choice of being fired or transferring out of our unit, she verbally attacked me when I transferred a patient to her care from the ICU. After the initial degrading in front of my patient's father, I told the nurse, "I want to speak with you in the hallway" in a cordial, calm voice. When we were alone, I addressed the problem head on - again, in a calm and professional manner. I told her, in no uncertain terms, that she would never address me again like that in front of a patient, and if she had anything at all to say about how I provided care that was harmful to the patient, then we could discuss it away from the patient. Surprisingly, this nurse apologized to me.

A few weeks later, the nurse was dismissed from the PICU because of her unethical actions, and given the option to quit or to be reassigned. She chose reassignment. I thought our problem was over and behind us, until I transferred a patient from PICU to her floor, and to her care. After showing the RN the patient (here are her IV's, here is her incision, etc) she accepted the patient in good condition. However, while the patient was in her care, the IV became occluded, her surgical site began bleeding, and she told the surgeon I took the patient to her "gushing blood" and had occluded IV's. Thankfully, I had a witness who was in the room when we went did the patient SBAR handoff and assessment, and she attested to the false accusation.

I love an article written by Malcolm Lewis (2006). This article consists of a table that explains features of bullying activity. Lewis cites bullying activity is planned and deliberate in order to discredit a coworker; undermining, verbally abusive, physically abusive (although this is rare), sarcastic, continuously criticizes, demeaning, fabricates complaints, sets one up to fail, and they are usually aware of the damage they are causing. Interestingly, the time frame for bullying can last from months to years ('serial bullying').

The victim should follow the chain of command when reporting bullying incidents in a timely manner. In the case of vertical bullying (nurse to nurse) the manager should be informed. If the manager is the one who is the bully, documented incidents should be reported to the next level up. It is vitally important for the victim to have written documentation and dates of each incident, as well as the steps taken to report the bully. Additionally, the victim must always act like a professional, so that repercussions will not befall the victim for actions that are unbecoming. The Joint Commission (TJC) cites the bullying behavior must be addressed in the workplace (2008). This can include a "zero tolerance" policy for "intimidating and/or disruptive behaviors" (2008).

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Specializes in Psyche RN.

Yes this is familiar territory as I was bullied in Nursing school. The main instructor appeared to enjoy terrorizing new students and putting the fear into us because she knew we all wanted to pass. Consequently she was training another RN to be an instructor and told her to treat us this way also or she'd be in trouble too. I was given multiple lashings in front of my colleagues , in front of my patients ( my patients were appalled and apologized to me), in front of the other instructors and not one person ever did anything about it except my second quarter teacher.. My second quarter teacher told me to go to the DON and tell her about the harassment. So one day I was outside the office of the DON, and I heard the DON and the instructor laughing about all this **** they give the students. Very sadistic, I thought to myself. I left the office so I would not be seen and later went back to the office. I approached the DON and said to her, " What do you think about an instructor that tells a student that has waited 2 plus years to get into Nursing school and in her very first quarter of her nursing career, her instructor says to her, " No one will hire you". : what do you think of that ? ...I said to the DON. Her mouth dropped in disbelief and she said to me, " We are not here to harass you, but only to make you safe". I said back to her I am all about being safe but not to be treated with such disrespect and to remove the write up for communication, which was unfair and uncalled for. Later in that quarter whenever I saw that instructor, she ignored me and would not make eyes contact with me whatsoever. I believe that she was reprimanded and told to stay away from me as they feared that I was articulate enough and smart enough to start a law suit. They left me alone after that...........But I will never ever forget the unfairness, the abuse, the favoritism of other students, the plain bull shi... that took place. This instructor was consequently loathed in her work place. Many of the RN's on the floor where we did out rotation hated her and apologized to us "the students" that we had to deal with her. In the end, I know why it is important to sit up straight and listen, and be very alert and on your game for Nursing, but bullying and harassment will never ever be professional, appropriate, acceptable, ever ever ever..........!! And by the way , I was hired . Right out of school as a matter of fact, and have never experienced bullying as a new nurse never. The staff that I work with was nothing but supportive and kind. Absolute antithesis of my school that I graduated from. So sad in retrospect..............I barely want to go to my graduation. Just so unecessary to bully people like that.

Specializes in ID/DD, CM, UM.

I experienced bullying at my first nursing job on a cardiac floor. It was awful. I tried to report it to my supervisor, but ultimately had to leave because nothing was done about it and I was MISERABLE. I have made it a point, in my nursing career and life, to treat people with respect, explain things and be patient; new nurses, experienced nurses, doctors, CNAs, everyone. In turn, my CNAs had my back--they are our eyes and ears. The biggest compliment I received was that they told me later on it was appreciated they could come to me if there was an issue, and not feel stupid about it. I appreciated that, but was also sad because it should ALWAYS be like that. Under-reporting = possible patient issues. We are all in this together!

Years ago, as I new grad I was let go from my first job because the manager felt I didn't have the knowledge and ability working in the department. I followed protocols, worked as team, and always tried my best which did not make sense. I find out weeks later, the manager's friend wanted her brother for the job and wanted me out to make room for him so it was best to let me go before end of probation! A few years later, I encounter working with administrators who cover up possible criminal investigations and other serious patient injuries. I would get bullied for doing the right thing and questioning the ethics of practices that were not right. Other staff would be required to misplace or coverup reports, facts, etc. In the end, the organization is in a media known investigation for poor practices and many talented staff have jumped ship to save their careers! I have left too and do not regret it. We all have difficult times in the world of health care, however we don't have to take ongoing abuse/bullying. We may not understand others actions, we only have control of our own.